Looking over the replys you had before me I agree with most all of them!Think back on all the times with her and then think about this:She is an X for a reason, keep it that way.
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Ex-Girlfriend Emails Me Out of the Blue..Opinions?
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Wow. That was like, the total opposite of what I recommended you did...and I'm standing by my opinion there.You beat around the bush so much in that email!"there's this thing. This thing that I'm gonna say. I'm gonna say the thing. so this is the thing. are you ready for me to say the thing? here comes the thing."She probably hasn't spoken to you because she fell asleep after the first 2 paragraphs.It also reeked of "if i don't get angry and act neutral maybe you'll like me again".I hope you're gonna leave it there. If I were you I'd delete her off your IM list, delete the emails, and like, have a party or something!
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In reply to:I can at least understand my own gender. All I can say is that you really shouldn't, but you're gonna - but please don't do it in a stupid grovelly way. Make her feel crappy.hahaha well its like you said...in the end I had to do what I had to do. You recommended going out with a bang and making her feeling crappy and even though she left me somewhat broken hearted in the end, I still dont like to totally chew a person out and hurt their feeling. I think if anything, she'll now realize that she screwed up even though she probably already knew she did, but now she really knows hearing it from my lips and that most likely eats at her a little bit. But I agree, it did reek of one thing:In reply to:"if i don't get angry and act neutral maybe you'll like me again".That is something that I did and didnt want to give of the impression of. Its like with what I wanted to say, it kinda was unavoidable, cause really I wanted her to know "hey what you did to me was wrong, but I have since moved on and am not the immature type to hold a grudge." However, by doing that it leave the whole, "Id like to have you back" scenerio. And come on lets face in....I wont lie deep down inside me somewhere, a part of me still wants to say maybe shes changed and realized her wrongs and that she might be worth giving a second chance. But its like you said; and what my friends with tell me; and what Id like to think Im smart enough to know on my own; I cant get back involved with her. I have to let things go...my question to you sadbuttrue is in the end what do you think Ill be doing....throwing that party and moving on like you recommend or looking mend things with her? I mean face its like you said you knew just like I knew, I was eventually going to email her, but it was for the simple reason that she wanted to put the blame on me and that really ticked me off. Its like not only did you screw up and are now emailing me 3 months later not letting it go, but your also saying I was the stupid. Yea ok bitch!
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It sounds to me like you are a perfectly normal guy. You think the same way I do, and while I made the comments I made, I probably would have done the same.My posts are merely to try and distract you from the obvious, and at the same time I have a tiny hope that they may change your mind, but I know that I wouldn't listen if the roles were reversed.You did what I would have done, but I just wish guys like us could be stronger....although I wouldn't have beat about the bush as much as you did