Man I get so frustated! My friend is one of the nicest people you will ever meet. The other guys pick on him so much and i want to do something but i just feel so powerless! What should I do?
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My friend gets made fun of.
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Why do they pick on him?
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Have him ignore them, like I try to do with assholes. It does eventually work that they won't annoy him anymore.
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Cause he can act kind of weird some times. but he is NEVER MEAN TO ANYONE ONLY IN RETURN!! IM FUCKING SICK OF ALL THESE CUNTS MAKING FUN OF HIM!
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Are you in high school? High schoolers will tend to start maturing as they get older.
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2/3 of the people at my school is a jerk. i dropped my books in the hall and all some seinor said was "sucks to be you!"
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How much you can do depends on what sort of influence you have with his tormentors. (For example if you are the school's fighting champion, you could let it be known you'll fight anyone who picks on him.) If you can't influence his attackers (which is usually the case), you can at least be a good friend to your friend.
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I agree with what Ineligible's saying. At times, all someone needs is a good friend... Someone who'll help them, and who'll not abandon them.
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i want to help him its just i feel powerless.
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Tell the guy to stop messing with him. Straight up.
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YOU are not powerless. At all. Unless those kids have some freakish powers that suck the energy out of you... too many scifi movies. If you truly care for your friend you will stand up for him. This has happened many many many times. If I see someone picking on my friend I automatically run over to help them (snide remarks usually help, but then again two wrongs don't make right). Sure I get a "who the heck are you, b*tch" from people but I'm not going to let someone pick on any of my friends at all. Even if they say something back to me because I know I'm better than that. And you are better than that. I think that all your friend needs is a boost. Once he sees how you stand up for him, he'll get the courage to stand up for himself. Set a good example and you will be helping not only your friend but yourself.
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im no normal person but i haven;t figured out why people don't pick on me.......maybe im just not fun, but thats good....
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I had someone that told me they had magical powers, and I better not fuck with them. So I kicked his ass. Stupid people. How can someone be stupid enough to believe in something like that?
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High school is just like Oz, you only get your respect by beating the living shit out of someone else, like completely pulverize them so they have to live out the rest of their life like Terri Shiavio. After your 2 week suspension you'll come back and everyone will think you're so cool. I've seen it happen, some wimpy kid snapped and beat the shit out of someone else in the parking lot in front of like 200 students, that dude was made after that
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That sounds exactly like life in a maximum security penitentiary.
Not eveyone in high school is a bully or a victim. How do these other people do it?
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I don't know but I got pissed at someone once beat his ass with a tennis racket, this tough guy badass was actually crying afterward and I had an extreme sense of satisfaction for breaking someone who thought he was unbreakable. Yes I got in trouble, they actually nearly expelled me until further review made it clear it was a provoked attack. I had my 15 minutes.
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yeah... Thats how it goes... Some senior was messing with me back in the day and tryed to hit me. Mistake. Both his lips were bleeding and he was almost in tears. Him or his friends never messed with me again. Problem solved.
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yeah well they were giving that same kid trouble. poking him in the side with a pencil so i took the pencil broke it on my desk and threw the pieces across the room! YEAH!