I was with this lad for over a year, the whole time he messed me about- always breaking up with me then telling me he missed me and we would get back together. he had commitment problems.We split up a few months ago and now dont speak at all. the reason we split was because he met another girl and claimed he instantly fell in love with her- they are not together because she is not interested in him (totally her choice- nothing to do with me)My problem is, im so hurt, the pain is terrible. i love and miss him so much. My friend said i should get my own back then get over him. its come to a point where i am obsessed. im really good at meeting new people, i can find a way to get along with almost anyone i meet. ive been going out of my way to make life difficult for him:Every girl he meets i become friends and turn her against him- so far its workedI hang out with all his mates just to annoy to him- they now dont bother with him much and hang out with me all the timeIt shouldnt be like this, what im doing is wrong- i know that and i hate myself for it but after everything he has put me through a small part of me feels better knowing that now he's hurting too. i mean he really messed my head up and knew he was doing it but it never stopped him.What can i do? please dont think im a horrible person, im honestly not. shall i own up and tell him ive been spoiling any potential relationships he had- so far he just thinks he's a lousy flirt and doesnt know im anything to do with all the rejections he gets.
Its not right ... i know
No just move on, dont talk to him, and quit hanging with his friend. Just break complete contact with the guy cause it seems like all this thinking you doing is interfering with your daily life and when it gets to that point you know your in a bad situation. Move on. Simply put, hard to do.