Experienced advice needed...

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I dont know if this belongs in this forum but anyways...

Well the thing is, i hooked up with this great girl over the summer. I mean she was pretty much everything i would want in a girl. Anyway to make the story short, i came over her house once, and we started making out ( BTW im 15 ) , and one thing led to another, and we were one the couch laying on top of another, almost naked... So then things get more intimate,and i tell her to get the condom out of my jacket. but just as i finish the sentence the fone rings, so she gets up , and tells me to go get it myself, i do so, and make a quick pit stop at the bathroom, to take a leak. anyways, wen i come back, we get at it again, but this time, i cant get a hard-on !! i mean thats it, it was just down.... i mean this has absolutely broken my heart.... quite frankly i dont know what to do, now im terrifyed that when the next time comes, the same problem will happen. I mean maybe i was nervous or something. god i dont know, but this is driving me mad. PLEASE someone help, and explain what happend, and what WILL happen.

Performance anxiety. The first go-round you were just on instinct, but the delay allowed you time to think about what was about to happen. When the time is right, it will happen again and you'll be fine.

Well also when she was just sitting on me, she kinda hurt my dick when she kinda rubed real hard on top of my jeans. But I dont think that could have been a problem, because i get normal erections when watching porn... or would it ??

If you're able to get a normal erection, everything must be working fine.

Im just mad. I'm prolly the only person in my school that's 15 thats not a dork but ive neevr had sex of any kind. And don;t say that is normal cuz it ain't (especially in poor towns its even more common for like 10 year old to have sex and my town is poor so yea) so my goal (yes im serious) is to have sex b4 schools out this year. I can;t keep a gf no longer than a week (cuz im not that hot) so say if you have a gf who has had sex b4 with someone else, is it ok to do it with her after a week?

How do you know who had sex? Do you believe everything people tell you? You want to nail some girl just to prove a point? Who decides who's a dork? Dude, this is all very immature stuff. Your idea is a bad one.

Most guys at my school do not lie about that stuff because of the fact that you can go to the person they had sex with and ask them. If they both say yes or one of them says "im not telling" then that must mean they did do it. And plus, is it really that hard to get some drunk girl to give you a hand job? (yeah, girls at my part of town are usually high or drunk) There was a girl giving another girl weed in class cuz she had some in her purse, and i kno cuz i was the look out! So really girl arent to hard to get in my school!!! And plus, im 15 not like 12 or something. At 15 (and most people are 16 in my grade) sex becomes a little more important!! when there are 6trh graders haveing more sex than you, ya kinda think your missing out on somethng!

That feeling of missing out can cause all sorts of problems, because it's not possible in a lifetime to have every possible experience, and trying to maximise experiences makes for a very unsatisfying life.