ok so i'm constantly hearing two different things-1) gradually get to know a girl and ask her out to do something2)don't wait, if you like her ask her out imediatlyi just wanna know which one would be better if i wanted to start a serious relationshipgirls-your advice is greatly appretiated
Depends on the situation.When I was in school I talked to em and waited til Iknew em a little better since I saw them all the time.After that i asked em out when I saw them.At bars, in the store, at a stop light. As soon as I met a ne girl I wanted to take out I walked over and talked to her and asked her out. If you dont do it when you meet them or see them and force a meeting, youll never get the chance with that girl again.If its a girl that you see on a regular basis you can try the whole figure them out and see what they do and how you and them interact.Depends on the situation.
Many people have been more successful forming a real long term relationship by asking someone out without getting to know them first. I say this because of the barriers our minds create when trying to decide upon our feelings for another human being. I don't know if you have ever heard of the Ladder theory but basically there are two ladders in a woman's mind when it comes to chosing a friend or mate. One ladder is the lover ladder, this is where all straight men want to be. The other is the friend ladder, this is where only gay men should be. basically once you are on the friend ladder you are screwed. You can not come off the friend ladder, but you can come off the love ladder. I don't really feel like going into detail about this but if you want to know more just message me and I will continue my analysis of the problem at hand. Good Times and Good Luck Friend.