Help.....Please?

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Ok so im seeing a girl from school, and well its not like were really in a relationship we talk all the time and have a laugh but there is nothing intimate there other than the odd hug (normally when she leaves to go to her next lesson) Now i dont know if this is my fault or hers, or anyones for that matter. But im knew to this and was wondering how to make things seem like were together a little more? I dont want her to feel like im not interested at all because i am, any help? were both only 15 so im not exactly asking how to get her into bed, just how to make things a little more like a relationship

Do you see her outside of school?

i havent as of yet, but i will be on friday

Oops! Forgot to add on to that post, do you ever call her or anything?Where are you two off to on friday?? Is it just the two of you?

I havent had the oppertunity to call her:( and no we wont be alone were going to a local gig (both into the whole music scene kinda thing) we can be alone though, if we want to be.

aww.. well after friday, give her a call (don't ask her at school, its not as good!!) and ask her if she'd like to go out again some time, just the two of you for pizza or something. I'm sure if you've had a good time she'll agree. Try to chat to her a bit on the phone, it makes it more personal out of school!

Ok thanks ill give it a shot is there anything i could do between now and friday? I dunno im probly just being paranoid but i feel like shes going off me or that she feels im going off her. I dunno just anything? i mean lol the closest ive got to holding her hand is trying to warm them up, maybe shes trying to singal something? Its unbelieveable(sp?) how childish i feel about this, but this is my first relationship that i would consider (or i want to be) proper

bump?...anyone?

Have you got her number? how about ringing her tomorrow or thursday and asking her if shes still up for friday, then chattin to her about stuff for a few mins befrre gettin off the phone? You don't need to bump a thread just because its not been answered for 5 mins..

Soz, i guess im just impatient and im off soon (this would play on my mind like hell if i had the last reply) I dont have her number jsut now (keep losing it ) I guess what i was really wondering is, is there anything i can do around her? to like show her im interested and shes not just some girl im with for the sake of it? I mean if you look around my school you see so many people together, hugging kissing, holding hands and i guess i want that.

ehhh I don't know what to say. get her number off her..!!! I like to phone people lol

haha yeh you do seem to like phone calls, so is there anyway i could go about being closer to her when im actually with her? holding hands whatever? how should i go about it? Please?im off for now though, ill check this in the morning

Thought id update:well friday was pretty amazing actually, we shared not only our first kiss but mine (feel as if ive waited too long, i mean 15 where i live is quite old to be having your first kiss) The night was then spent together at the back of the gig in each others arms talking. I also spent sunday with her which again was a great day. Thanks for any advice given and you'll be happy to hear weve been speaking on the phone

lol.. yay for the phone!!! Glad it went ok :-)

It's nice to see a thread with a happy ending. Congrats, nedab90.> yay for the phoneEngineers and inventors bringing good things to life...nerds rule!

I hope you guys break upHappy Ending over

WILL YOU JUST FUCKING SHUT UP ! FUCK OFF AND MAKE YOUR OWN LIFE A MISERY INSTEAD OF TRYING TO MAKE EVERYONE ELSES SHIT. When I first joined I rated you as a 5 because you genuinely seemed like a nice person, and you used to answer threads with proper answers that meant something. I sure as hell wish I could take back that rating now, because you've changed for the worse. What happened to the old insearch?

Amz,I think Insearch was just messing with SteveA. I thought it was funny. I got a good chuckle out of it. Of course, I am a big fan of sarcasm, and light ribbing. I think, since you already took care of the poster's original problem so well(which you did, good job Amz!), there was nothing left to add, which makes the post dead. That's what I would call a proper place for humor. Sorry if you didn't see the humor in it.

ok.. maybe I just took it out of context cos I was reading the community forum beforehand... and I do actually miss the old insearch, note how I rated him 5 when I first came here.. not everyone got rated a 5!! lol I'm not very good with sarcasm.. so I probably didn't realise the humour in it. Apologies!!

whatever you do , dont get to clingy on her... as soon as you seem desperate its a turn off.Play it cool , give her something nice ,like a gift and then kiss her on her cheek.. then wait a while , make her feel special , gils love that. but dont get her too many gifts.. just once in a while. things take time , but before long , as long as you make her feel special , she'll be putty in your hands... you'll prob even get her into bed !! ha hagood luck