Need help..

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Hi everyone there is this girl that I'm very close with. I've known her since grade 5 and I always talk to her by phone but seldom at school because we have different classes and different set of friends except for one common friend and some of the guys that had a crush on her which were also some of my friends. But in spite of seldom talking at school, we still talked to each other at night by phone and we grew closer because she always tells me her problems and secrets. She told me one time that I was her very close friend and she was sad that I was leaving because my family just migrated this year to Canada. So b4 I left I asked her if we could go out with some friends and she said yes but it didn't happen instead she made plans with her friends even though I asked her in advance.. I didn't get mad because that didn't matter anyway.. But when I called her as I was going to the airport she didn't answer even though it was ringing.. What's weird was she didn't call back and there was no message from her when I arrived here in Canada. So when I emailed her I asked wat happened but she didn't reply even after a month so I emailed her again and waited until up to now which is 8 months already since she hasn't replied in a proper conversation.. The one time she emailed me was to thank me for greeting her happy bday and she told me that she was busy so she couldn't reply. I accepted the answer so I expect her to reply after the initial one but as I said in the whole 8 months up to now, she only sent 1 reply.. I even asked the common friend we had but whenever she asks her wats happening, she would change the topic.. Its just weird.. Is it common for girls to be this way? Maybe because I told her I liked her b4 I left but I did say that I'm not gonna court her if she doesn't want to.. I mainly just want to keep my friendship with her and slowly make my move so she won't feel uncomfortable. I really like her and I hope that she could be my gf someday because I still remember all the good times we had. But as of right now i just want to preserve our friendship and still be close to her even if I'm miles away from her. Can u guys help me? Wat should I do? I'm really confused and don't know wat to do.. I know 15 is still young but I can't help my feelings for her..

Sorry it took so long.. Tnx for the help u guys will give me.

Over the summer i went to poland, and i had this great friend. I loved him with all my heart and he was the most important person to me. Well, before I left we said good bye and everything was good, but now, I havent spoken to him since i left. I have tried IMing, calling, ect but he wont talk to me. I dont know why, but i was so incredibly heart broken. I still am when i think about all the good times we had, I really loved him. It hurt me to throw away such a good friend ship. I think you have to get every, as do I.

So your in the same situation as I am? I'm not making this up ok just so u guys know. I'm serious and I just need some advice.

Yep, we're in the same boat. Its really really difficult to get over and such.

I just wish I knew what to do.. I really miss her.. Sometimes I even cry a little. But that's just normal I guess. Especially when you miss someone that special. But I really wonder why all of a sudden.. why not reply all of a sudden..

maybe she feels she is in another part of her life, and needs to let a few things go. especially since you moved away, maybe its difficult for her to talk to you now and know what to say. With my friend, I like to think of it that way. He is sort of evolving as a man and going into another part of his life, and i don't belong in it.