Can women do what men try to do?

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Hey All,Here's a question thats been bugging me... Women often complain that their man orgasms too soon - he should try to last longer. Fair comment, but can women do this? Anyone want to have a go? Try and get as close as you can and then carry on without having an orgasm? I know that when it happens to a guy it can end the session, and women don't have that particular problem, but I just thought it would be funny to put you ladies in our shoes for a change... Cheers!Stu

Thats a great question! Can you girls hold back? :wink:

I can, I will just change what angle I'm at or something.. But we don't need to hold back! We can still carry on after hehe and it feels so damn good.. yay

Hehe, true! But us guys can't exactly change the angle we're doing something - its usually stop or... So can you keep going and just not...? You know, like we're sposed to think of someone ugly or something... (rarely works, my imagination just ain't that good!!)

I don't think thinking of someone ugly during sex would stop me from coming. Probably more likely to make me laugh!!

Lol, exactly! Anyway, how do you know about the changing angle thing, do you ever actually stop yourself from coming on purpose?

Yeah I have before just to make it better when I do come. I've only ever done that when I'm on top though... it's all worth it in the end!!!! :wink:

Thanks Amz, but there must be more ladies out there who could give their input? I know you lot aren't shy!

Most women can't orgams from intercourse alone, so it's not even a problem, and nor can we 'try'...I can hold off a normal clitoral orgasm, but there's not much point

I have held myself back during masterbation so it would last longer, but during sex, if we held back, you guys would have to hold back 2ce as long as normal, if you still let us go first. Then that would suck for you even more--more playing pool, or playing a video game, or looking at something gross in your heads even longer. Now do you really want us to hold back?!?

Hey All,I think you've misunderstood me a little. I wouldn't want you to hold back, no way - I just wondered if you could. And not necessarily during sex, but at any time, and with any kind of orgasm. Basically, if you're masturbating and getting close to orgasm, could you carry on doing exactly what you are doing and not orgasm? Thats what I meant when I said "try it".

You mean through mind control, rather than "stop-and-go"?

I guess so, yeah. You know, either through will power or by thinking of other things. Just curious tbh...

>by thinking of other things.

well in that case yeah! Sometimes it takes me time to get into masturbation cuz i wont stop thinking!! There would be times, my hand would stop moving or my vibe would be buzzing away but i wont even realize cuz i get carried away with thoughts...i have really strange thought patterns lol. If i'm close to an orgams, i can prolly come up with almost anything that would start a chain of random thoughts and byebye orgasm!

That's cool (and sometimes not so cool I guess...) I think I read an article somewhere that said that women have to "think" about having an orgasm before they could have one, whereas men don't have to. I doubt they meant "think" as in actually thinking about it, more that there had to be some mental/psycological element to the process.So how about just through willpower then?

> So how about just through willpower then?

Do you mean to have an orgasm through will power, rather than prevent one?

Are you writing a research paper?

Preventing one. I'm thinking about writing something - the whole area is pretty fascinating.

In fact, that's a great idea. Any women out there who would like to contribute (via the boards or email), please get in touch.Cheers!Stu

Yeah, I can definately hold back, especially when we do it doggie style. That way we can both watch TV. :grin:

What are you watching, Gilligan's Island...j/k LOL