Does this make me gay?

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It's been bothering for a long time so here it goes.I love to jack off and I can basically get hard watching both men/women, gay or lesbian sex. Either gets me hard.I can judge if a guy looks good physically or not, and possibly get turned on by it. Same thing for girls.I wouldn't mind jacking off another guy or maybe sucking him off but would NEVER get fucked or fuck a guy. But I would totally eat a girl out, get sucked by her and fuck her non-stop.Finally, I would never have a boyfriend. Having a relationship with a guy is wrong to me, and I have never developed feelings for another guy before; but for girls, yes.So my question; am I gay? Or just basically anything can excite me sexually, including men?Thanks

based on the information you've provided you could be in a transitional state and you should just wait and see what happens and not let your thoughts have an effect on your feelings
or this could just be the way you are, if it is, then your not really straight but your not quite bisexual you're kinda straight with just a twist of gay so you can't really declare yourself bisexual you are in a kinda sub "species" between bi and straight which really isn't uncommon

Yeah, but I think that the fact that I would never want to have sex with a guy AND ESPECIALLY have a boyfriend crosses out the '100% gay' right?I was thinking possibly as classifying myself as Straight but curious. I never developed feelings for another guy, but have for girls. Plus, I heard its pretty common for guys to get turned on by other guys but they just dont say anything about it.

<<>>Look, I don't think that you could be gay. If you don't ever see yourself having sex with a guy or dating a guy, then I don't think that you have a problem. The other things you wrote about are common in alot of people and don't necessarily make you gay.

Woah thats a relief. Cause I want a family and stuff like that, and I dont wanna be gay. lmao

But yeah, there's like maybe .5% chance I would let a guy fuck me. And absolutely not for dating. The thing is I can get excited by guys and maybe think and jerk off to being sucked by one (i heard that was common though) but never have and never will have 'feelings' for them.

Woah thats a relief. Cause I want a family and stuff like that, and I dont wanna be gay.How does any of that stuff you mentioned matter? If you're sexully attracted to a woman and you want to have a relationship with her, and you both want to have kids, that's all that matters. If you like to give blow jobs, why does it matter? You wouldn't cheat on your wife/gf would you? It wouldn't be any better if you cheated with a female rather than a male.I swear, it's as if people need to put a number on their sexual orientation. People are manufacturing things to worry about.

Gay refers to the attraction to the same sex. A woman being attracted to a woman or a male being attracted to a male. Being gay has nothing to do with sexual acts as people seem to think. If anything, I'd say you are bi-curious sexually, but not in the means of a relationship, if you get what I'm saying. It's hard to explain, but sex is sex. Some people just like to experiment, but if you start to consider having a relationship with another male.... well.... your gay.

Whatever label you use, the way you feel is in fact very common among guys, even if they don't admit it.

I feel exactly like you do man and I've come to the conclusion I'mn just a streight guy who recognises the sexual vibe of a pretty-boy face and an erect penis.

reality check time. watching sex is a turn on. doesn't matter who is doing whom. The only difference is some people get more turned on by watching one couple versus another. For instance some groove to asians, others to guys, some to mixed races and others to male-female sex. I say watch and jerk off to whatever turns you on at the time and don't try to label yourself just because there is or is not a penis in the porn.

As for admiring physical beauty, I am glad to hear you can find people attractive rather than isolating your admiration to one gender. I notice people and I find some really sexy, some totally beautiful, others mediocre and etc. People are like any other part of nature - we admire what we find attractive or beautiful but we don't have to run out and have sex with that which we admire. After all when was the last time you tried to get it on with a majestic mountain or a peaceful grassy patch by a rolling stream on a warm summer day. Oh wait! I could dig that. But we won't go there - hehe.
Last thing. All teens are curious and want to experiment. Yes today's imposed standards seem to make everything out to be 'gay' but that is not the case. Guys showering together, wandering aroudn the locker room naked, and yes even mutual masturbation are not an indication of one being gay; just human. Unless of course you know you are gay and you are really into mutual wanking in which case you aren't worried about your sexual orientation anyway.

i think i can help. Oh i hope you see my message.When you masturbate and you have worries if it'll make you gay, i know the solution. Since gay means that man likes man or girl likes girl, you can close your eyes(but lock the door to be secure so no one sees you) and imagine your girlfriend or a hot girl. Don't look at your penis until it's done. Think about strippers(i know this sounds pervy, but this will help) or something like that. Just to keep you happy

After looking at something a certain amount of times while jacking off, it can cause you to become aroused whenever it's brought to your attention. However, true homosexuality is emotional and not sexual, so your method wouldn't have any effect on sexuality. Besides, this post is two weeks old and the original question has been answered, so I would consider this post on the border of being dead.

"True homosexuality is emotional and not sexual"OMG finally someone actually gets it ^_^

Ntro has discussed it in past threads.

Hmmm....I always figured it was 50/50. Emotions would certainly be part of it but I thought if someone is gay that meant that they are sexually attracted to other guys.

That's not true love. It's called being shallow.

What if you're married to a woman, and feel emotionally attracted and close to her in every way, except that you're not sexually attracted to her, yet you are sexually attacted to guys, and have sexual affairs with them, but are not interested in an emotional connection with them?You may be shallow, but are you also gay?

That would depend on your definition of what love is. For most guys, sex is sex, at least from what I've heard. So, I would consider that to be shallow. A lot of people would consider this as bisexual, which would make sense in this case. I can imagine that this would be quite a problem for the couple.

Well it seems to me you have a few options.Your either:BisexualBi-CuriousSimply...Openmindedor a Nympho...But hey no one on here is going to be able to tell you if you are gay or not...your the only person who will know for sure

haha a furry