In reply to: Are you even reading my post? I said I want to get with an asian girl, not that there was any problem with multiracial relationships. First.. look at your "Subject line" which is "relationships with other cultures.." then you said.. In reply to: How many people have done this? Then you went on to get rude with some people for posting their opinions to your questions.. Why bother asking if you dont expect a reply.. I was right taken back and you werent even talking to me
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Relaytionships with other cultures...
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In reply to: Yeah, it sucks that you can't find any other way to entertain yourself besides going out with the blokes and boozing, so she'll never take you seriously!" I go out drinking with the GIRLS and its not the only way I entertain myself. In reply to: So far no one can figure out what you're saying Not the case. Homicidal guy and Ineligible seem to understand. In reply to: quasi-racist first post Race doesnt come into it in the slightest little bit. In reply to: Will you ever get over the race hurdle that's always in front of you? There is no "race hurdle". Culture shock though i guess.
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In reply to: You totally missed my entire point. I see that now and I'm sorry, but I also felt you'd entirely missed the point of mine when you started saying how the world is messed up...presumbly because of me, or so it seemed. In reply to: It's not real if someone wants to go out with you simply because you're white. And it's not real if you want to be with someone simply because they're asian. Depends what you mean by "real". I'm only looking for casual dating right now as I am better off without too much pressure at the mo. In reply to: I didn't want to mention my own situation because in previous things you've opposed most of what I've said so it's like hey what's the point. Well your exactly the type of person I wanna hear from if your in a multicultured relationship and seeing as thats kinda the point of the thread, to then not touch on it is kinda unhelpful.
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I hope you were being sarcastic and don't have this theory on relationships, "Things were simpler when everyone around me was white". You need to come to Sydney, Australia not Cronulla of course. I'm Asian, I have an Australian boyfriend.
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Relationships with other cultures are surely possible. Of course, there will be some minor problems about religions, traditions and habits, but you won't consider them that much. But, someone's character is influenced by the culture of his country. So, the troubles can be sometimes in extreme conditions so severe, that you can end even in a hospital (I'm not joking). For example, this could happen if you try having sexual relationships with an muslin girl from a religious muslin family and her family finds that out.. So, you have to be a bit careful.
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I hope you were being sarcastic and don't have this theory on relationships, "Things were simpler when everyone around me was white". You need to come to Sydney, Australia not Cronulla of course. I'm Asian, I have an Australian boyfriend.
That isnt a theory about relationships, I'm just saying things were simpler where I used to live cos everyone was white. I'm NOT saying it was better. I've just moved to a very multicultural city you see and its a big change for me, though I am enjoying the change. I'd barely spoke to someone who wasnt white until I came here, unless we count kebab shops ya know so I guess sometimes it just feels like culture-shock. But its cool.
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splendid, cheers.
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Sorry if I missed your point also you just sorta turned me around when you added the things that you added... if that made sense. No it didn't. But yeah, I'm pretty sure I told some people before about the problems I had when I first started a relationship with a white boy who I'm currently with now. It wasn't a big deal with him or his family but my family and friends didn't take it as lightly especially the guys. But they're selfish and rude so they don't count. But no one should let someone's nationality get in the way of being with someone. He was actually the one who came up to me and started a conversation like he had known me all his life. It was more like an argument over some Yankee game (and he was wrong just to make that clear, really he was) but it ended friendly anyway. And for a while we were just really close friends for like a month or so. And then it developed into something more for the better . So don't be hesitant to date someone just because they're different from you in a way. I'm sure yours won't be as complicated as mine. I went through WW3 because of it and I thought my family wanted to disown me which makes no sense because part of my family is caucasian. Stupid people. I understand how you feel when you say it was easier when it was an all white community since it wasn't that... difficult. But again its ok. Theres a table during lunch with all asians and they invite me to sit with them all the time even though it's mostly guys, but no big deal. The others are right about the religion issue and everything. THAT can be a major pain and problem. The first thing I'm usually asked is "IS HE CHRISTIAN" like wow guys thanks. And they sure know how to put on the pressure as if you're making the biggest mistake of your life. So make sure that doesn't get in the way of things. As long as the girl is comfortable with it you should be fine. No one should care or take it too seriously otherwise. Family does play a huge part I'll guarantee that. Which stinks especially if you learn the hard way. Best of luck
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Well that is interesting thankyou. You know I thought YOU were the white half of the relationship for some reason .As for family well it depends on her family rather than mine I guess. My dad wouldnt like it and would have something to say about it but he doesnt like anything I do so MEH! (plus I dont live with anymore so tis all splendid). I dont think my friends would think much of it, not my Leeds friends anyway...my friends down South would be shocked though, but in a pleasant way with most of them I think.But I'm talking like its gunna happen tomorrow hehe, I'm in no rush nor am I impartial to white girls
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No, no, I'm the multiracial black one who spends most of her life daydreaming and getting in trouble for it.
Try not to let what others think get in the way. It's annoying. It may be rebellious but the most fun I have is rebelling especially against my dad. It's fun watching him freak out over something little like that. But all of his kids rebel so what else is new? And he's from the South. Cough! Anyway yeah, good luck and I hope things work out well. :grin:
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You'll have to forgive me if I've missed a lot of information. I'm just responding to the initial post.I'm half-filipino half-white. I see interracial dating all the time, and to be honest I've never dated an asian girl. shrugs There aren't very many of them around here.Yes, I have experienced some frowns here and there while with my girl. Most notably when I was with my last girlfriend at a local politician's celebration party. Everyone there were older southern white people. Haha. I get amused by situations that most people would get frustrated by, and this was one of them. Anyway, in my experience situations like these can make a relationship grow stronger. It's you two vs. whoever.So, I highly recommend that you go for it. A lot of the time, different races act differently, respond to things differently, and gives a different spice to everything. Ya never know, asian spice might be what you never knew you wanted.
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well , i'm a muslim girl & if u told me suck my cock i'd simply say why don't u suck it yourself :grin: , look guys, what i wana clear out is in our religion , we girls can't have non muslim bf & subsiquently, we can't marry non muslim. maybe she doesn't wana like someone not from her religion so that she doesn't have to regret it after .... & about we can't talk untill being spoken to , this is none sense with all my respect. that doesn't happen
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There are lots of Moslems (men and women) married to non-Moslems. It depends on how conservative you are. There are also lots of non-Moselems who will not marry outside of their religion.Some people just don't want to date or marry outside of their religion, even if they're not conservative in other ways.
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all i can say is i recently came to visit singapore i have a few relatives over here and mi ex gf moved here this time last year...i couldnt believe the number of asian women with fairer skinned people ..the amount you see really is un-believeable until you visit such a place ... and i know for a fact their is an asian guy with a crush on my ex ( she is english he is asian) ...ok this is off my own bat and im sorry if all of you do not agree.... it really depends on where you live to see where a mixed culture relationship is acepted or in some cases not accepted.... for instance in singapore or the phillipines it is totally accepted to see asian women with fairer skinned men however where i live in the uk it is a very rare sight and would perhaps attract some attention...(err hoping i havent offended any-one with my terminology but yes i apologise now !!)in my personal opinion i believe that mixed relationships are ...just like other relationships and that it doesnt matter which way the mix is seen! i can honestly say i havent dated an asian woman how-ever if i found some-one special who was asian i wouldnt say no because of her culture...some asian women are so very.. attractive they really are i agree ... errr as for my ex she is close friends with an indian girl who is incredibly attractive but for me not personnaly my choice of girl..ok i asked my ex for this and she says.... the muslim followers are gennerally quite devoted however it will depend upon her family's beliefs and how strongly they follow the muslim faith ..as far as im concerned you should go after who you like not based purely upon their culture as these women are still women right! and not all women follow their home culture for eg some indian , chinese etc are christian's and catholic followers right so it really depends on the girl... and i can see that their are a few issues with religion and etc but if you loved the girl enough surely you could sort it out and remember dont go and insult the religion that she/he follows that is rather ..yeah im sure you know ..well i hope that helps .. but sorry if it doesnt