My boyfriend gives me oral the time and he's tried lots of things like the alphabet and stuff but nothing is happening. I mean it sorta feels nice but im not getting any intense feeling and im not even getting wet. I do like him but I wouldn't say that I find him really attractive physically, could this be the problem?I've tried masturbating aswell but that do much either except occasionally making me feel like I want to pee, is there somethign wrong with me?
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Nothing Happening!!
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Your just not turned on by him (physically).I think its a big give away that you dont get wet...getting wet is basicly like a guy getting a hard on...you get wet when your turned on. I can get my gf a little wet just by getting some body to body contact...and really wet by kissing her and feeling around with my hands.Either way it sounds like your just not turned on by him...my only suggestion is to just try to kiss and feel you up untill you feel yourself wet...then if you wat let him try to go down on you. Its much easier to take it in steps then try to jump. Dont lay down and have him start giving you oral...start by lil kiss...move to making out..move to some hardcore making out and feeling up...then move to playing with each other. And when you try masterbating...try thinking about something that turns you on...AKA a guy you think is hot...or a fantasy or something. See if that will get you wet. And ive heard from a few girls that after they get off they want to pee...I think this is normal but im not a girl And by the way...i think in order to get into a relationship you have to some how be physcially attracted to the person your with...its not shallow..its just part of a relationship. I feel a good relationship is simply a best friend that you are physcially attracted to. If your not physcially attracted to your significant other...then what are you? I would think just good friends.
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Do either one of you know where your clit is, that is the spot that he wants and you really want him to lick. When you masterbate, do you stay on the out side of your pussy or do you insert your fingers inside your vagina. If you leave your fingers on the outside of your pussy, you will find your clit and then you can tell him were it is.
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He knows where it is
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The problem is not finding the spot of pleasure...its that she doesnt get turned on.From my expereience when a girl is with a guy that is really 'wants' (attracted to) you can basicly do anything around her pussy and she will like it and it will feel good...but to get her off u then gotta work for it and do certain stuff.you gotta take it in steps...and if the girl isnt even getting wet...well thats the biggest problem as of now.