Me and my girlfriend are sexual active and whenever I get to the point where she starts to cum she wants me to stop watever I am doing...whether that is fingering her for actual intercourse.A few times I kept on going after she started to cum and she started to squirm (and make some noise but she would already be doing that)I asked her why she wants me to stop and she says because she gets really sensitive when she cums...I asked if it hurts and she says no its just really sensitive.Can the girls fill me in with what she is feeling? Is her becoming sensitive when she ccum 'normal'...and that is why girls have the reaction they have when they have a orgasm. There for it is normal to continue doing whatever I am doing.Or is this not normal.I am the first guy that has got her off so she is still somewhat new to 'sex' Personally I think it is normal and she is possible just a little self concious of the involuntary movements so she has me stop...she always laughs at her leg whenever i make it shake so it would make sense. CONSTRUCTIVE info would be apprecaited.
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I've experienced it (with a woman who was not new to sex). It seemed to be a sensitivity thing. Motion had to stop when she was about to orgasm.
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So what are my options...oviously if Im fingering or oral I can just stop...but if we are having intercourse do I just stop? Last time I noticed she was 'sensitive' for probably 5 minutes after. Do I just stop intercourse and wait for her to go back to normal?Could I just go slowly...would that be a problem (question is towards people with experience in this topic)?
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Alright thanks alot...appreciate it.Like you said I'll try to go really slow or stop and slowly progress to normal...ill see how that goes.Thanks
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Yes it is normal for a girls who have just cummed to be overly sensitive in the clit area. What you can do is after she gets off, just go ahead and finish yourself with her. She is "done" and now it is your turn, you don't need to stop having sex. Turn her to a position that you really like and cum yourself.