I find myself in a little bit of a predicament, I'm pretty possitive I'm pregnant and my boyfriend wants me to get an abortion. Now this isn't something I've exactly ever thought about or thought I would even be contemplating it, but I am. I have a problem though I have no idea how to even go about finding out how or when or where or how much. And he's really not being much help. So if anyone could help me out here, that would be great. I'm kind of in a spot and I don't know what to do.
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I need some advice!
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Well before you start stressing out about the abortion, maybe you should go to the doctor and make sure that you really are pregnant. Second if you are the doctor shoudl be able to help you with that. Third, ur boyfriend sounds like a prick....no offense
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The best thing to do is to go down to a locar clinic or a Planned Parenthood center, or even your doctor. They will give you ALL the info and help that you may need - abortions, preg test etc.
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Welcome to the boards, your one of my favorite retards and bitches, Im with him too, your b/f sounds like a prick.
If you give me his number Ill call him and fart in teh phone each time he answers it, and you know Im good at that youv spent too much time having coffee with me to not of noticed.
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In reply to: Welcome to the boards, your one of my favorite retards and bitches, Im with him too, your b/f sounds like a prick.If you give me his number Ill call him and fart in teh phone each time he answers it, and you know Im good at that youv spent too much time having coffee with me to not of noticed.and anything ya need, ya know how to get ahold of me. Maybe it was just me, but i didnt not understand a damn word that u just said here
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You wouldnt, nor would anyone ele on this forum prolly, but she will understand it. it was a personal message was all. you didi understand the part where I agreed with you saying her b/f was a prick I hope.
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yea thats about all i got, but thanks for clearin it up
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i think grvtykllr made friends with Mr. Alcohol tonight...;)
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actually JenJen I havent had a drink or a few weeks now not even a single beer.Punk is a personal friend of mine and we were talking about this tonight and I recommended she come look into the site and see what other people had to say since Im no expert on this subject. Iv known her a few years now in real life. She will understand perfectly every word I typed and typoed.
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Ok yeah your BF sounds like a fucking tosser, no offense.Find out if you are pregnant once and for all - you might as well go to a doctors or clinic for this, since you will need other advice as opposed to getting a home test.If you are, then the clinic will be able to advise you on different options, and an abortion will depend on how far along you are.Every option has its bad points and making a decision has to be YOUR decision, NOT anyone elses, especially your BF's (by the way i would kick him to the curb soooo fast he would bounce!) Personally having kids has been THE greatest thing in my life, and tho when i had my first i didn't have a BF i did have family to support me etc, and thats important.All options will have its good/bad points but you have to figure out the right one for you. Having a child will put your life on hold for about 5 years, work/school wise.........till it goes to school and then you can carry on studying, working etc (i did), tho of course it will make it that much harder, but for me the rewards far outweight the bad bits. Abortion has its bad points, mostly psychological and that can stay with you for the rest of your life.I really don't envy you at all, however, if you are pregnant the only thing you can do it get ALL the facts, and make the decision YOU feel is the right one. Feel free to PM me if you need to offload or anything else. hugs
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Lol sorry then... It's just your posts gave me the impression that you were a little more than tipsy, especially since I know how you type