Just going after it

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I know peoples views on just hooking up for 1 night, but what if it is to go after two peoples curiousity. I would like to experience what sex is like, and man I am just not sure what to do. I have stayed a virgin up until now and I am lost of why I do not try and lose my virginity.

I'll be honest with you sex is fun, exciting, crazy, intense, and many other words. But none of those things really apply unless it's with someone special. I know some people will disagree with that statement but for me it's true. Sex is more passionate and intense with someone you have deep feelings for.I am not trying to tell you not to do it, just giving you my opinion and how I feel. If I could go back and change the first person I had sex with I would only because I didn't have deep feeling for him and I let him talk me into having sex. But what's done is done hehe.A pretty deep subject and you'll know whats best for you.

Personally, when i was single i had many one night hook ups. Im sure as hell not against them, I never lied to them about what i wanted and what I was after and thta it was all just about the sex. One night stands are great things. Least they were for me. Gotta be careful but so long as noone gets hurt Im not against them. Why you save yours I dont know, that a pesonal reason that you can answer and no one else can. Must be a reason yes? Do what makes ya happy, and if ya become a man whore in the future, just dont be a dick about it and lie to them to get em in bed to bone em down, I told al of them the truth and still got what I was after, noone got hurt and we parted on good terms and uhh sometimes hooked back up later down the road and got wha I wanted again.

actually there is no real reason I am still a virgin other than I never really cared about it. But now that I am a bit more grown up, my mind desires new things. I mean I am so unsure, I just want to have a girl to do it with to see what it is like and crap like that.

Walken, it makes me kind of sad to read this. You are one of my favorite people on this board. As such, I find myself actually caring about the decision you make here. I'm certainly not one to say don't have sex. And you are certainly old enough to do it and understand the implications and consequences. I think that's why you're so torn right now. But, that being said, I would just say be very careful with this. If the part of you that is hesitating is based on your convictions or morals or just based on character and respecting sexuality, that is a huge and all too rare thing. Balance that with the part of you that wants to have sex just because you want to see what it's like or you are tired of being a virgin. I think you know what is right for you. And whatever you do, I'll still think you're a cool cat.

well I think I am just too concentrated on sex...I think what I want is girl friend. So I am going after the girl I like and I hope she likes me back. I have said this so many times, but before I would not follow through and now I realize that I need to b/c something great may happen. And if things work out and we have sex then awesome, but I am just gonna go after a relationship first. And that being said, I have to go suprise her where she works so I can get her number and ask her to dinner for tomorrow night.

I know what you mean bro. You know sometimes when we dont have neone we start thinking of things that arent in our nature. Like me, i broke up with my last gf a couple months ago. We did have sex, and now i think i want her back. But i thhink i really want her back for the sex because i am all alone, my hand is lonely. But u need to stand strong man. Relax and do it with someone you care for

Yeah my desires usually get the best of me in what I say, but my actions would not b/c I just do not believe in and out or I do I just really do not know. I am completely torn in what I want/believe. If you asked me why I would say I really do not know. I just who knows...lol...

I think it's always worse around the holidays, too. Stay strong and be sure it's what you really want.

Yep readytogo is exact. The holidays are always worse to be alone. Its a fact that the depression rate is higher this time of year. but stay strong, im all alone too. You're not the only one....trust me

Have you seen 40 year old virgin?
first befor you go talk to this girl, watch the movie if you havent already and make sure you know, EVERYTHING his buddies tell him is wrong.
now go talk to her and ask her little ass out.

Well I went and suprised her at work. She was happy to see me, but she was really busy. So I waited and chatted with her while I could, but after 10-20 minutes I felt like an idiot standing around. So I told her I had to go and she asked why, and I forget what I said. I called her at work later and talked to her a little then she said she was real busy and asked if she could call me later. I said okay and gave her my number and then never got a call back. I am hoping she forgot to call. I mean I really hate how I always have the hardest times asking girls out....Everytime I go to do it, something comes up and fucks it up. But I am resiliant. In reply to: now go talk to her and ask her little ass out. HAHAHAHAHAAHAHA Her ass may be small but it is damn fit.

None of that matters.
At work I focus o work and personal shit sorta falls off I forget alot outside of what Im doing when Im at work. Maybe she left hte number at work or in her pants and sent it thru the washer and lost it or maybe she did forget.
I wouldnt think about it anymore and let it screw its way into your confidence. Chalk it up to a shitty coincidence and go talk to her again and ask her out.
I have a girl with a tight little fit ass myself, I love that !!
looks good in levis, a skirt, tights, swim suit, birthday suit.
Best of all I got no kids and a whole weekend to spend with her and it all starts in a few more hours.
Speaking of that if I were you Id go hit her up again as soon as possible, whats better then a new yeaes eve date and a midnight kiss?
get on it Walken, you got a once a year oppertunity to make a cheesey pass at her with a line about starting a new year with you.

Aww, you are so romantic Chance.Walken, skip the 10-20 chatting at her busy work. Just say, 'Hey I know you're busy, but do you wanna go out for New Years?'

In my own circle of close friends Iv become known as Chance "that pussy whipped bitch"
I never knew that being pussy whipped was good before now, someone shoulda filled me in and I would of made the switch long long ago.

Just thinking of having her around for New Years makes me smile. I will go see her again. I will catch her on her lunch break and talk to her then.

Well in addition to a nice little tight butt, she has the largest set of breasts I have seen on a girl her size. She is about 5'5" and has very little stomach fat (if any) and just is totally beautiful.

I just want that feeling of knowing that someone likes you back and that you two are together.

I like how you're sounding now. And I totally get you. It's hard. Dude, I want it too. Real bad. But, like you, I feel like the relationship needs to come first. I think you're on it. Hopefully you can develop a great relationship with this girl that is so healthy that you find the sex part isn't always at the forefront. Good luck.