OK I met this great girl. Im 17 and shes 16. Up to this pont I have only gone as far as holding hands, above the shirt and pecks on the cheek. When I first met her she seemed well like a virgin tho I didn't ask but on the first night we started going out we made out for close to a half hour with full on (or should I say in)tungs (I'm a fast learner) and under the bra. The next time we hung out the was some mouth on nipple and my hands down her pan'ts (with her hands guiding mine all the way)Because of some of the things she says and does I can tell she has been with a couple of other guys. Then last night during the same activties as the night before she asked if I wanted to go all the way! in less then a week sence I met her!I dont know If I'm ready to go all the way yet. I'm a guy with rageing hormones and I know what my body want's to do. but there is only one first time and we have only been together like five days. What do I do?And if I do go all the way whats the best way to go about it. I know LOTS of forplay and take it slow but I'm kinda shy. I'm not that big and it's kind of Imbarising. So any advise would be great
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Virgin to All the way in a week?
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I would tell her no, that you dont want to yet cause like you said, your not ready. If she doesnt respect that, she isnt worth your while.
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whoa she must be pretty slutty.
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if you don't want to, don't, if you do use protection and be safe.
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Ya you should do her but use a condom. she might have warts or herpes or hepititus A though Z
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the fact that you are posting this thread up shows that it greatly concerns you and i think it shows that you are not quite ready to do this. i think you should not make any quick decisions that you may regret for the rest of your life. if you want your first time to be special, then i'd say wait until you're in love etc
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In reply to: Ya you should do her but use a condom. she might have warts or herpes or hepititus A though Z hey, that's so funny! lol, hepititus a through z, sry, got a good laugh about that.
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Do you like this girl? Its the 21st century unless your into that no sex before marridge and only after ive shagged Jesus crap then fair enough.If you like her just do it. Ultimately you have to feel comfortable about it all, just use protection, be safe, be sensible. Ultimately i dout you'll be able to fight off your male instincts for long especially at your age. If your not ready tell her she'll surely understand but dont be afraid to do it. What have you got to loose? Your virginity? Pah, your denying your instincts, besides who wants to be a virgin?
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well if it makes you feel any betterWith my first gf after 2 weeks she started doing those little things you talked about, unfortunately for me she would make fun of me for not knowing anything and constantly bombarded me with verbal abuse. Then after I did do something she would make fun of me infront of mine and her freinds all the time. Becuase of all that im not to interested in sex anymore that and 3 gf's cheating on me later must tell me something about how good I am
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I'm very sorry, Ryanman. I doubt that the three cheating gfs were because you weren't good. When we feel bad about ourselves and lack self-esteem, we tend to make bad choices in partners - we tend to go for the people who treat us badly, for some reason.
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Damn that girl ain't playin is she?lol Intodeep I believe the decision is yours to make. Don't go along with it if you feel uncomfortable. I know how it feels because I was in your situation once. Also ask her if she has slept with guys before you should ask her if she's had unprotected sex and has been tested. Make a choice you are not going to regret.Ryanman your ex gf was only rubbing off her self-esteem issues on you. Her blasting you in front of your friends was only for attention and lack of love for herself. So try not to think about the past. Learn from that and give yourself more credit than you do.