I'm not new to sex, but i've never had an orgasm. I've tried everything i can think of. I have a vibrator, I had guys go down on me, sexual intercourse...ive tried relaxing, im with someone im very comfortable with, i focus on the moment at hand and try not to focus on having/not having an orgasm, ect, ect, ect. Don't get me wrong it feels good but it seems like when im alone in my room it feels good but it stops at just before and thats it. And when I'm with my partner it feels good, but its like not all my wires are connected correctly. My breast are not at all sensitive, and the sex and foreplay feels good but its the same as with masterbation. I get all hot and bothered, and it feels really good but I never have an orgasm. Is it possible that maybe I do orgasm but its just not a typical one where muscles clinch, ect. I asked a friend and he said that if I had one I would definetly know.
Well i once dated a girl like this. I could never get her to orgasm, and well what she told me, she could rarely orgasm herself. My guess would be that there are just certain people that dont get off the same way others do. My advice would be just keep goin at it, trying different things and see what u can do....sorry if that wasnt much help
yay, lol, so whatever happened to that girl?
No it wasn't much help. But I guess I really wasn't expecting a out-of-heaven solution. But thanks anyway, feels better to know im not the only one.
Well she ended up cheating on me lol, so we broke up. I later found out she did that alot...she got around. O well. i didnt think i could solve ur problem since im not a woman, but i thought id make u feel a little better to let you know ur not the only one out there.