No matter what I do I can't get wet, even even my boyfriend goes down on me and when I masturbate. We have to use lube when we have sex, what could the problem be? DO you think it might be because I am worrying about it too much?
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Can't get wet
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i dont know, do you orgasm through masterbation etc? i know that in my last relationship i couldnt cum etc because i guess i was slightly nervous, so maybe the fact that you 'worry' might have something to do with it-are you guys not comfortable together?
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She's not talking about orgasming. She's talking about just getting wet.
qwerty11, do you get stimulated at all during masturbation or sex? Are you saying that you get turnded on, but still don't get wet?
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I occasionally have a week or so where I just can't get wet. I can be really really turned on but to no avail! I stil lenjoy sex using lube, but I'd really like to get wet during those times lol.. Maybe like you said, you really are just worrying too much. Do you feel relaxed when you are having sex? How long have you been with your boyfriend??
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Me and my boyfriend and really confortable together, that's why I don't get it because im not nervous or anything.
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Are you getting turned on, even though you're not getting wet?
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Yeh I am, well at least I think I am, I can feel that my clitoris is sorta engorged I don't really know how else to put it
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hmmm...! Do you get wet if you do it by yourself?
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No When i masturbate I don't orgasm and I don't think my clitoris is very sensitve cos I don't get any strong sensations
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**some women just don't get very wet, end of story. If you don't get wet when you are masterbating then its nothing to do with the level of arousal with your BF. You could try going to the Doctors, sometimes the pill, or other medication can cause dryness, it can by hormone levels, many menopausal women suffer from it. **
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Well im only 17 so I know im not menopausal
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LOL i didn't mean that you were I meant it could be hormonal.............thats all LOL
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Lol, thanks for your help anyway, the responses have been really quick