Hi, I'm a 16 year old male and lately i've been having thoughts about same sex encounters. I know I am not gay or bi because i do not have any romantic feelings for another male nor could i, but i could and if given the opprotunity would have sex with the same sex. I fantisise about other male friends of mine, and i also am very easily aroused by the though of other guys. I can judge whether or not another guy is cute or not and i enjoy both straight and gay porn. I'm starting to wonder about my sexuality, is this normal to have feelings like this? how and where would i act on these emotions, who can i trust? i hope sumone can tell me whats going on...
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Curiousity
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WHAT! If you can have sex with a same sex partner you're gay or bi. You don't have to have a LTR with the person. If that were the case I know a lot of straight men who think they are very gay. lol
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It's not at all uncommon for younger guys, especially with raging hormones in the midst of puberty, to think about (or even to experiment with) different sexual situations. It does not mean that you are gay or even bi. You will most likely favor one sex or the other as you complete puberty.
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You could use the term "bi-curious" if you like. It's not very clearly defined, but it seems to be used in situations like this.As far as actually doing anything, it depends on to what degree you think your friends have similar feelings, and how much you trust them. Use extreme caution! The wrong move could end up as school gossip.