i know most people would just read the title and say no, but hear me out. my gf of a year has been lately pissed off about something. i try to hold her, kiss her, and i even had a talk with her. she told me shes just been pmsing, its been about two months of pmsing i guess. it seems like she doesn't want to be with me anymore. i told her i felt like she was putting up a wall, and she just told me off and hung up. i really love her. i wanna be with her for the rest of my life however i sense an end is coming. sigh. i know she isnt with any other guy for sure. but she keeps on pushing me away...i might fall out of love if she keeps doing this. makes me wanna crythen she has a friend named virginia. shes really cute. we have been flirting and we spend every moment together since well a week ago when we first kissed. i've known her as long as ive been dating my gf. i am falling for her. actually i admit i already cheated. im in love with someone else and i know its wrong.just i wish i could patch things up with my current gf. however just virginia is an amazing person. she makes my day brighter while my gf makes my day greyer. i dont wanna just end on a sour note...what im asking for is any hope between me and my gf? or should i just move on?also just in the future if i do move on how should i ask my ex's friend out? i mean i dont wanna destroy them two but i really like her.why couldnt it be like a fairy tale
Falling out of love...
The fairytale doesn't exist.I kinda think that you GF knows whats been happening, how you feel about her friend, and thats why she is acting wierd.You need to stay away from her friend IF you feel like you say you do about your GF............which you can't do if you think you are falling for her friend. You can't treat peoples emotions like this, but trust me, what goes around comes around.
uh well i never really started to talk to her friend until two weeks ago. my gf started to pick fights with me about a month ago i dont think its because of her friend.
i honestly try, i always ask if she wants to go out or something but she always says shes tired. at school whenever shes around i always try to spend time with her but last time i asked her if she wanted me to walk her to class she told me that she could do it herself.
do i come off as clingy. i dunno if im clearer now. but uh. its not like im pushing her away or anything im trying my best to just make her happy but nothing i do makes her smile like the way she used to.
is it true that if i stay away from her friend would fix everything? cause that would be swell
Honestly buddy your soon to be ex gf sounds like my ex gf. You seem like a sensitive guy who know his feelings. You like to talk things out that bother you and dont like to hold grudges with her. Her on the other hand, shes not one who likes to talk about her feeling, she hides her feelings not only from u, but herself. And she takes all of this out on you by the way she acts towards you. That was exactly my situation, which is why she is my ex now. Let me tell you something, there is no reason why any person should be treated like that by someone they care for. My advice is to get out of the current relationship because i donnt think she will ever change. As far as her friend, hang out with her friend a little longer. Dont just jump into a relationship with her. Then let it kind of go in its own direction and see where it ends up, dont rush things.