I was finally able to get my bf to have sex with me. I waited until he fell asleep then started it. When he woke up he was to aroused to refuse, and I think he really liked it.
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Follow up on my bf
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Um wow... congratulations.
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This is the guy who called you a "whore or slut"? I'm not sure that you did the right thing (seemed rather manipulative), but I hope it works out for you.
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isnt that borderline rape?
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not if he liked it!
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you can be raped and still like it, in a sense. It's where that whole pleasure thing comes in.
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You're on very shaky ground.
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lighten up I was kidding!
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Kidding about rape -- not cool.
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I would SOO not have done that... It should have been his choice whether or not he had sex with you, and I don't think you should have forced him into it. I'd be pretty pissed off if I was in his situation.
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At the very least that was very disrespectful on your part. How would you be feeling if the shoe was on the other foot? I think people need to say that to themselves more in relationships.
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IF the shoe was on the other foot, he'd be in jail, no doubt. Girls don't like to wake up to someone pulling their pants off. What if you were alseep, and your man decided to lube up his erect junk and cram it in there? Let's say you woke up as he was already in, would you "go along with it" or would you pull away and be disgusted?Chances are the average woman would not be thrilled about such a thing, but, personally, I do wish more girls would take your approach. The world would be a happier place for sure.I've woken up to the occasional oral pleasure, or to a good hand job, that lead to sex. I've even woke up with the usual morning wood, and had a girl mounted firmly ontop of it. Sure, it's great when you are already into sex with the person, but if you two aren't sexual active yet, it could be weird. WHat was his reason for not wanting to have sex with you before?