New years resolution

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for my new years resolution i stopped masturbating. i have gone 13 days without masturbating, and so far its pretty easy. The only hard time is when im about to go to bed. I have 2 questions though.1) Have you ever stopped masturbating? If so how long2) If you did stop, how long did it tak you to get a wet dream?and i will add another one3) does anybody hjave any words of encouragment for me?

why would you want to stop masturbating?

Hey I'm right there with you. Tomorrow is 2 weeks. My last time was New Years Eve. I'm committed to it this time. (Either that, or I need to be committed! ) I'll tell you, days 10 and 11 were difficult. I didn't know if I would make it but I did. I think the key for me has been to learn to enjoy feeling sexual, even enjoy erections, without seeing them as the first step to masturbating.As for your questions, I went three monts without wanking a few years ago, but I never had a wet dream. I'm really hoping for one this time. I'm even trying to train myself to sleep on my back to increase the chances. Good luck! Keep me posted.

why would you want to stop masturbating?For the same reason you'd want to stop breathing: It builds character.

Hey..i will never stop masturbating..doesn't do it so much now that im older, but i still do it..i got a girl but i still do it..when im away from my girl..But if you dont want to masturbate annymore..HEY!!! thats great for you..hehhehe keep it on..

Hi thereI have also made a with pact with myself. The last wank was on new years day so I have now been just on two weeks. It has had its moments but so far I have held off.One time when away travelling went for about 4 weeks with a session. Hard to find private time and space when traveling with a group of people.I guess it depends on your age and how often you used to masturbate as to wheather you will get wet dreams. From all the info I have seen some guys never get them yet others get them just llike that even though they masturbate on a regular bases.We all have our reason for stoping i guess and some peole might think it weird but if you want to really stop this then its up to you to go through with it. You will have times when you feel like giving in but if you really beleive in what you are doing you will get though it.

I've stopped several times: once I lasted 3 months, twice I lasted 2 months, and several times I lasted 1 month. Never got a wet dream during any of those times. However, I once got a wet dream after only 5 days of not masturbating, without even 'trying.' So yeah, wet dreams don't follow a logical pattern there, at least with me, but for most guys, the longer you don't ejaculate, the better your chances of getting a wet dream.If you want to learn more about wet dreams, how to get them, and moral support while abstaining for one, visit: http://www.wetdreamforum.com

sometimes i stop masturbating but its only to test my self, i dont expect myself to stop forever, not like its smoking or anything, i just do it because the break away organsim is just magical

max i did was a week(but i want that to change)

I have gone 17-18 days so far :-)

Congratulations to you!18 days here as well.

I don't understand, why would anyone want to stop?

There are lots of reasons people want to stop. Some I agree with, some I don't. I can't speak for anyone else, but for me masturbation is part of an addiction pattern. So it's not just that I haven't masturbated for 18 days. It's more like I've been sober for 18 days.

Hai allIt seems a fe are trying out the News years resolution. As for me my last jo was on new years day and I am trying to hold off from that.It has its moments but so far I am still holding on to not jo for as long as possible. But I guess we will see what happens.

its a hard thing to keep

i went 6 months once w/o masturbating. i never got ONE wet dream throughout that period. then the day that i broke that 6 month record, -i had a wet dream that night. what the??? i do not understand it AT ALL!!

I'm confused by your post. Are you saying that the day you finally masturbated you had a wet dream, or the day you hit the six month mark of not masturbating you had a wet dream?

i get it as, he went 6 months and the night he gave in, then he had a wet dream..............still not understandin the whole wonder of the wet dream thing shrugs

Well...when you're not masturbating and not getting anything else, a wet dream is a free orgasm. It actually serves as sort of a motivator. I've also heard it is a much more intense orgasm than comes from masturbating.

Plus, I haven't had one since I was 16. It would just be cool to experience it again.

I haven't had a wet dream since I was much younger. Masturbation cured that nuisance. I don't know how intense most of them were, since I was asleep. I just woke up with damp briefs. But the few that I do remember were no big deal...at all. I have no idea why people want to have wet dreams. It's like wanting to wet your bed.

Whoops!Fell off the wagon.I'll get back on tomorrow.I hate that I blew it, but damn it felt good!