Hey,So me and my girlfriend(my first gf ever) hooked up in my bed today and we were like hugging and kissing for like an hour. Then her bra came off and she started to get horny, she started to "do sexual moves"(not native speaker, cant find the word), she did it fast and for like 30seconds stroking my penis with her ass(but indirectely thru clothes) and I came at that moment, but both of us had our pants on. So i came just by stroking indirectely thru my clothes. She asked me if I came and I didnt respond because i was so ashamed, im so embarrased now, is this normal??? Also I get an erection when I kiss her for some time. Is this as well normal? Do I need medication? Im 17 by the way.
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I am embarrased, should I be?
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Totally normal. It's all good.
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thank god, i was very worried there for a while. anything i could have done to not have came in that situation? short breaks?
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You experienced "premature ejaculation", which is very common, and may have happened to you becuse of the newness of the feelings. But if it happens all the time, you can try some of the techiniques mentioned here or here or here.A lot of people like the stop-start technique. You can also try masturbating beforehand. And your partner can help with the squeeze technique.As you get more experienced, it should become less of an issue.
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thanks man