Hi,When my boyfriend goes down on me, he does not end up giving me any pleasure. I feel slight pressure down there but that’s about it. In a few minutes I end up tapping him on the shoulder and telling him to come back up because it’s just not doing anything. I know that there’s nothing wrong down there because I regularly use a vibrater and that takes its normal amount of affect. Do you think that he’s just not locating the clitoris properly, or that maybe my clit is not as sensitive to oral as a normal person is?ThanksLexe
Question about why i dont feel pleasure from oral?
It's quite possible that he's missing the spot. You should talk about it with him, even guide him.Now, when you say vibrator, are you stimulating your clitoris with it? It's possible to become too acustom to one kind of stimulation which makes it difficult to enjoy another.
Thanks for the help both of you!!! I didn't know that the oral and the vibrator made a different kind of stimulation. Maybe my problem was I was just expecting the pleasure the vibrator gives me and not accepting anything else as worthwhile.
They make his and hers guide books on oral sex. You could buy him one if he's not too sensitive about that kind of thing. If he is buy one for yourself too and make it seem like you just wanted to see if there was more both of you could learn.