Hey guys. I've not posted in ages because life has been so great for me recently.
I got a fresh outlook on life and I've been feeling on top of the world since August.
I even managed to forget about girls and became totally happy with myself.
That's where the problem is though, my self-confidence seems to have got me in a place where girls are noticing me.
One in particular I've known for nearly 18 years (though haven't been in contact for the last few of them). We had a schoolyard romance thing back then!
Thanks to the internet she looked me up and we started talking again - this was about November time. We get along really well and we're very compatible - always have been.
Anyhow things have been going well, and yesterday she told me that she's falling in love with me - which is great because I'm falling in love with her too...
...but there is a big problem. Well, actually 3 problems. Offspring.
She is a mother of three, and still lives with the father. Things are turning sour between them and she's really depressed. She says that I have turned her life around over the past couple of months. She thinks we could be soul mates.
So the issue is that I do really like her, a LOT, and I can see things going a long way with her - but I don't want to break up a family. That's happened to me and it's not a pleasant thing to go through.
All I really want is for her to be happy, but I don't (and she doesn't) see that happening with him.
I've never even considered children before, and I'm totally overwhelmed by whats going on here.
I'm so confused. I feel really selfish for wanting to be with her, even though it would make her happier - because it would destroy a family.
We're having real trouble controlling what we say to each other because we don't want to admit our feelings for fear of what may happen.
I'm so stuck :frowning: