Ok my and my fiance have been together for 2 years. We live together and have a great relationship. The only problem in our sex life is that i dont get wet. I mean i am exiceted and in the mood but still i cant get wet. I use lube but it just doesnt seem right you know. And i think he feels like i dont enjoy it. HELP!!!!
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I dont get wet
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**Some ladies just don't get wet. If you are getting aroused etc, and not getting wet then it could be a hormonal thing, and maybe a chat with your GP would get to the bottom of it. Especially if your fiance gets upset by it. **
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Are you on the pill? A colleage of mine said his wife had a problem with dryness when using the pill. She switched to an IUD and the problem went away. I wouldn't exactly recommend an IUD if you are looking to have kids (there are some risks) but it's something you should discuss with your doctor.
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I have the exact same problem, and i really bothers me I think part of it may be that I am thinking about it too much
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yeh thats what i was thinking - this happened to me on a pill i was on (it also lowered my libido)if you are on the pill, maybe you should change to another one, thats what i did and everything went back to normalhowever, if youve always never been able to get wet, then just use lube, a lot of women just cant get wet
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Thanks guys. I thought i was broke. lol
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Hahahaha that happens to me! and everyone was telling me my vagina was broken and i got really upset and stuff so i went on here to see if anyone had this problem and now i feel normal=)! so glad to know i'm not the only person that has that problem
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what if you get too wet? That's me. He makes me very wet.
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My gf and I have/had the same problem. Interestingly enough, when she increases her water intake, it is less of a problem. We use lubrication, but it is needed less, if at all, when she drinks closer to the daily recommended amount of water. This may be an isolated coincidence, but it's worth a try.
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When you're on your back, have your bf stick a finger in you about an inch or so, press down lightly and rub around/massage the area for about five minutes or so and see what happens. This is where the glands are that produce your natural lubricant...massaging them a bit sometimes produces good results when you can't get wet any other way.