Well to start off im 16 and i go to a school in new york where i (whites) are a minority, i mean like im the only white guy in the class. Also i dont have many friends in school because i dont share their intrests mainly. I hang out with the same 10 kids where i live. My trouble is i cant meet a girl that seems intrested in me, i think the problem is my school. Or maybe im wrong. Also i like hispanic girls or white girls, but so far i have never had a girlfriend. Also i forgot to mention i am very athletic and i do have a six pack but im sure nobody knows, also im not like the rest of the kids in school because unlike the kids who just talk about u know violence or drugs, i dont find that intresting and prefer more sophisticating things. i dont want to sound conceded but its true.
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Trouble getting a gf
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wow um... wow. I'm offended but ssss ya I'll take that rude punch with a positive attitude "turn the other cheek" and try to... give some "good" advice. Why I hate the world? This. This is why. Lord, anytime now. Anytime.You needn't try so hard to get a girlfriend. When the time is right you will get one. Don't rush into it's not like it's necessary. Unless you're absolutely positively dying for a girlfriend I don't see what the problems. Otherwise, you can walk up to a girl and just talk with her. Striek up a conversation. Make small talk. Don't try too hard. And please, please, don't... forget it. Good luck and try not to take things the wrong way if anything negative happens. One thing to remember is not to isolate yourself. Skin is just a color first of all. Look past it. You should like a person for who they are. And if everyone at your shcool does not match your interest then maybe that's just not the place for you to find a gf. Just wait if it doesn't work out.
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I'll tell you exacltly why you can't get a gf:You are a pompous self-absorbed jerk, with stereotypical and judgemental thinking. Now, i'm not trying to put you down or be rude, but I got all that just from reading your post. First impressions in my opinion are very important, and if you give off that kind of vibe, girls may be turned off by it. My advice: relax, don't worry so much about your six pack abs and try to be more down to earth, and quit blaming everything on your school because it has nothing to do with it.
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thx jenjen u r right, u made me see myself from someone's elses point of view, i will try to change for the better