Just some questions

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I have 2 questions, but first if all hi, my name is alex, I'm 14 years old and I'm new to this site. I have two questions, 1: I find that for a while now I can't stop looking at porn or thinking about stuff like that, am I a sick pervert?2: I think I'm a pretty nice guy, still, I've never really had a girlfriend, what do they want in a guy?

1. No, your fourteen. Normal.2) Different for EVERY girl. I like Adventurous, smart, witty, and spontaneous.

For 1. I wouldn't worry too much, most 14 yearold guys can't get enough porn.As for 2. maybe one of the fairer sex on this board could make a comment. But also have a search through some other threads, there is plenty on the subject.

Welcome, Alex. I also agree that you seem perfectly normal about porn.Girls like guys who care about them, are good listeners, take the initiative . . . at least, they all help.

also another question, is it normal to masturbate like everyday? And also, one of my friends says he had his first time when he was 10! Is that normal?!

oh and thanks for all your answers

1-you're 14, you're curious...completely normal2-you're 14, all the girls you know are from school, and you have plenty of time and will have plenty of relashionships. Don't rush it. I just found out yesterday that my 10 yr old nephew is mr. man at school, all the girls love him, and I'm like hell no, he's too young. Sorry. Anyway, point being, you're normal, don't worry. You have a long, long road ahead of you. My first serious boyfriend was at 14 and it was way too serious. Slow down, don't panick, much of what you hear in the locker room is bs anyway.

Welcome Mr. Fireman.....These days it’s normal for someone of your age to be obsessed with Porn. You are awaking your sexual prowl. So as long as it cool for you to check it out… enjoy your viewing... As for taking care of business… Some guys do it 5-8 times a day at that age. Every chance they get to pop off a load…. It will back off too, so enjoy it......As for what do girls like… Each one is different. Trust me on that one. You will never be able to completely figure them out…. And if a guy says he does… He’s lying LOLBut, from a “core” point of view, I would suggest always being yourself, not be afraid to show your emotions and communicate. Communication is a big big deal with the women folk… And when you fall in love with that person, Tell them that you love them every single day, like it is gonna be the last time you’ll ever see them.

Thanks for all the answers guys(and girls), I like that the people on this site are so mature, this isn't the kind of thing you could talk about on a chat room or something.

Thanks... It's nice to hear, but that is why we're here. For the most part....We are mostly looking for the honest answers.. But we do tend to drift topics every now and then....(Chuckle)

Good luck!

That's sooo sweet what yo said. Fireman, he's right, always be yourself. It may take a while but you WILL find someone who gets you totally and it's worth the wait. Shit it took me til I was 24 to find someone like that and he feels the same way (except for some thing in case you read my previous posts) and for 2 years now, it's like, wow, someone understands me, they don't want to change me, they like me just the way I am (may or may not have come from Mr. Rogers).

someone tends to drift off topic...............who............I'll have stern words with them.............and dammit, got all giddy when i saw the user id of fireman, then read he was only 14 sigh another dream dashed on the rocks of reality LOL

haha