i think that has alot to do with the weather too. in places that are cold and cloudy
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V-day
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It think its because people are lonelythey dont have anyone to be with during the holidays. lonliness apears to be quite a driving factor in deppression/suicide.
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I know where your coming from, Iv been there.In High school I never really had a gf, I humped my share but I didnt really date but 3 of them. On valentines it was depressing because I had noone and it seemed everyone else had someone.Later I was single by choice and then I was married and hated my wife. after I divorced her I was single and loving it and not looking ot be with anyone. I got one anyways despite my best efforts to avoid having someone. Now shes been living with me for over a year and we have been together for almost 3 years (end of this month)Valentines still sucks.Now I have to do whats expected of me and constantly trying to come up with new better things then the year before.I still havent pulled that bit o magic out of my ass for this year and Im running out of time. It get to be that you expect yourself to outdo what was done before and its alot of pressure to constantly make things better.We do jsut fine all year, all god damned year. Little presents and shit jsut so we know the other one thinks about us when we are away from each other and our 'dates' with no kids and the one with the kids. We have never had a real fight and very few arguments. We get along great and everyone that knows us thinks we are oh so fucking perfect. She brags about me to her family and friends and thats where the damned pressure comes in, I have this whole thing built up so that i have to constantly do better then before for her so that her fam and friends dont talk shit about me slipping.Really what we do on a regular basis is good enough but now it has to be extra special for that one damned day a year ontop of christmas, new years, and her birthday. If you have someone or you dont, either way vday is the shits! the shits in two different directions, opposite ends of the spectrum, but still the shits.
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Actually that's not true.. it increases.. though the highest times of suicide are in the summer months. I'm doing a formal report on sucide for my COMM class.. and have had to research it for the last month.
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Doooo it
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good. I go to school come home and do hw b/c all my buds have told me that they are going to spend their freetime with their loved gf's, which is cool. I am just saying that I do not have a cousin or what not to chill with. I am happy that y'all who said you have plans, have plans. I just do not have any. It seems each year it gets worse. Have fun you guys. Enjoy b/c next year you may be alone. Just joking. Have fun.Pink you do seem to get a bit of the brunt of my frustration and same with you angel. i am sorry.I have made my home at Purdue and being at my proclaimed legal residence has been unbareable. I am being asked when I am getting out of the house and why I am so lazy. When I am trying to focus on getting back into Purdue and going to Fiji and school and getting other items ready.
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Its the 14th same as every year I considered doing that but then I figure how the fuck am I supposed to top that?f got to think ahead for next year ya know!besides she wants her kids there and getting married on vday meansff Vegas time and she wont go for that, trust me I been trying to talk her into it since I asked her to begin with.For the record, I know Helms asking when it was after he just stated it would be easy to remember was a joke!
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here comes my first V-day alone in nearly 12 years. Actually, before the year before I met Mrs X, I was single for V-day and I can't for the life of me remember what I did or who I was with.Anyway, I'm not looking forward to it but it's just basically another day.So, I may be alone but a lovely lady asked me to be her special virtual valentine, but I'm not telling who
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I spent New Years Eve alone...watched the Super Bowl alone...hell, I can't wait for Valentines Day.
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I was alone for newyears... except for a few other sad sacks that were posting here at midnight. I went to hang with my best friend for the game though and our sons played together.
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Yeah. I am ready for summer.
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YES... looking forward to summer! That will be a good time to be single and I'll be back to buff by then
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Hahahhahah screw V day. I thought you were talking about V Day as in Victory Day
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Hey you didnt do any of that alone. Because i was alone on all those days too, thus in some way every single man wasnt alone on those days. does that make sense? cuz it did in my head
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uhh...that's a bit cosmic for Monday morning...
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The only thing I have to look forward to on V-Day is the flowers and box of candy my Dad brings home for me ^_^ That always makes Valentine's Day a bit nicer.The worst V-Day ever had was me holding my ex up against a car while he puked everywhere... bleh, that wasn't what I had plans to do, but when I showed up at his house he was drunk off his ass so what was I going to do? Let him stuble around and make a fool of himself? Nope... I helped him as he puked, helped him to the bathroom several times, and then a I helped him to bed before he passed out in his front yard and then went home. Now thats what I call fun! rolls eyes
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The only thing I have to look forward to on V-Day is the flowers and box of candy my Dad brings home for me ^_^ That always makes Valentine's Day a bit nicer.
My dad always bought be flowers too, i loved it.
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Aww I remember when my dad used to buy me teddies and things on Vday. Aww! :grin:
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Somehow...LOL I got it! Monday and everything! I will be alone for it too. or not, since so many of you are joining me in the alone thing...I will let you know though if something "comes up"...te he.Im just lonely everyday now, so it doesn't matter that V-day is comming.
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Yea well i was up to go to my classes. i had a quiz and an exam, so my brain was already in motion
