Alright girls a quick question for you.1st.. would you rather have sex with a guy that's wearing a condom or not? I hear and I know it feels A LOT better!The question really is that my girlfriend is considering on going on the pill.There is a big fear between us that there's a possibility that she could get pregnant. I have also read that the pill is just as effective as using a condom.What can I tell her to reassure her that it's safe?Thanks.
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The Pill, question for the girls.
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To reassure her it's safe to get on the pill and not use a condom? Is that what you're asking? Neither is fool proof, using both is the best option. I'd rather have sex with a condom and pill to avoid pregnancy and STD's.
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I'm trying to reassure her with using the pill is a good way of contraception. Obviously using a condom and the pill will increase the odds of NOT getting pregant.
We would really like to go on the pill (meaning, my girlfriend) because we don't want to take away the pleasure. We are both extremely healthy people.
We have both been tested for STDs and HIV. We are both clean. We both exercise everyday (and no, it's not sexercise) We both run at least a mile a day and play sports....
I just wanted to reach the fact that we're healthy people and have no problems.
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what does being healthy have to do with anything? go research stuff online aboutthe pill, print it out, and give it to her.
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Don't put that responsibility on anyone but yourself EVER! Be proactive in your avoidance of early fatherhood and safety from STD's. If she forgets to take the pill, or intentionally gets pregnant, or gives you an STD, you will only have yourself to blame.
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totally agree with ilikekisses.................and for my bit, i got pregnant twice while using the pill, so no its not 100% effective.
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wearing a condom will not decrease the pleasure you get through sexbe smart and use the pill and condoms, then you dont need to worry
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wearing a condom will not decrease the pleasure Where did you come up with that? Everyone knows it's better without a condom.
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Maybe from the woman's perspective?
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IDK.. I think most women prefer sex without the condom. My wife hates them.
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It's not too bad if you put a little lube inside the condom.
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I don't like them but I'd rather use one than get pregnant or get an std. That simple.
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I'm not denying those facts. I'm just replying to mazkat's statement, that condoms do not reduce pleasure. I say BS.
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I hate using condoms. It takes some of the good feeling away.
But...I have been on certain BC pills before that took away my sex drive, That sucked worse!!!
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In reply to: Maybe from the woman's perspective? Maybe so, but the OP was a guy, and for guys it is definately better without a condom.Having said that, if a guy is not in a monogamous relationship and/or is concerned about unintended pregnancy, wearing a condom is the right thing to do.
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Definetly BS!I would LOOOOVE to have sex without a condom.. I have before.. stupid .. But I would never ever let a guy put it in without a condom.. and any guy I have gotten with knows that.
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From my experience i can't even tell if my bf is wearing a condom or not. He feels a huge difference but it makes none to me.
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Getting AIDS/HIV has really nothing to do with the way you are before you have unprotected sex. HIV is a bi-product of the mixing of some bodily fluid with the bodily fluid of another, and cannot be dictated by how healthy you are before contracting it.
