I am 16 and recently asked out a girl I really liked, but got told that she thinks it will be better if we are just friends, because she has lost to many friends that way. We are in the same class and always talk about things we are doing and everything. I have gone to a movie with her, gone skating, played badminton with her (only because I wanted to hang out with her), and even just studied at the library with her. All of these it was just me and her (no groups). As I said I like her and everybody said that by the way she looked at me they could tell she liked me, she also always waited for me at the end of class so she could walkout beside me. She I take this as it was, just friends. Or have any hope that maybe in the future I can go out with her?After I got that response I quickly changed the topic and stayed cool, then the next day acted like nothing had happened.
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Just friends
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stay her friend. I think I know what she means, seeing as I have lost many friends because of boyfriends and shit. it's more fun to just be friends and if anything happens, so be it.
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Thats what I figured I would do, but I don't really get her sometimes. We have a valentines dance coming up and she wants me to go with her. I really have no I dea what to do?
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Your her friend. Take her to the Valentine dance. Have fun, laugh, dance, talk, enjoy each others company. Just don't go in for the kiss at the end of the night. Ya never know, she may begin to see you in a different light.I say, take her to the dance, that is unless there is another girl you also "like" who would be interested in possibly being your girlfriend. What I'm trying, rather unsuccessfully, to say is things may or may not develop with this girl you want, but don't pass up another relationship, you would otherwise be interested in, for her. If you wait for her to long, you could miss out on a lot of other possibilities.
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Dude,
You're pretty grown up about this... Kudos! I would just have fun and be her friend but keep things strictly plutonic.
