Here is a quick summary of what happened:Realized I really like my friend. After some debate, I told her how I felt about her. She was happy to hear this, she was all smiles, and told me she like me too (don't know if she was being sincere or just saying it because I was telling her the same thing). I DIDN'T ask her out at the time, because I didn't want to put too much on her too soon (I should have just asked. Looking back, I'm certain she would have said yes. So yeah, I really screwed that up). The next day, I asked her if she understood what I was getting at -as I worried that I had been too vauge. I hoped she knew I was hinting at dating. All she said was "yeah". I don't know if she did indeed get what I was trying to say. The last two and a half weeks have been kind of weird between us. It's not like we don't talk anymore. We just don't talk quite as much, and it's not quite as free-flowing. Granted, it has gotten better the last little bit.***Everyone seems to think she is waiting for me to ask her out. I wonder if I should take the fact that she hasn't said anything since that talk as a "no".Ultimately, I want to get an answer, whether it be yes or no. Should I just say something like "hey, you want to go see (a new movie) this weekend?". I figure it's not too forthcoming, but I still suggest we do something outside of school (which we haven't done for a while now).But if it was indeed a "no" she was hinting at before? Bringing this up again will make me look bad.I'm leaning towards asking her out. It seems like the only way I'll be able to move on. The last couple weeks have been killing me wondering what I should do.Any thoughts, opinion, and ideas would be greatly appreciated.
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Screwed Up Bad - Is It Fixable?
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Go for it!!! Good Luck!
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defantley ask her out, in my opinion
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Asking her out is probably the only way to get closure, one way or the other. It's probably more straightforward than having a big, frank discussion about your feelings.I don't think you screwed up at all.
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She already knows you like her, so there's nothing to lose really. Even if she does say no, who cares? It's only when you're prepared to fail that you will succeed!
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Dude do it!!!!!!! lol
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shes probably wondering why the hell you havn't asked her, after saying you really like her.............she could be thinking that YOU are thinking you made a mistake in telling her...........Just ask her, things will only get worse if you don't. Good luck.
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Thanks for the thoughts everybody. I really do appreciate it. I guess I'm worried about the fact she is being stand offish now. Is it her making sure she doesn't lead me on, or is it that she is upset that I haven't asked her out? I guess maybe it doesn't matter. I'm going to suggest we do something next weekend. But I'm just trying to get a feel for what I can expect from her. She is truly an enigma. She probably thinks I am too.