Recently I was asked out to dinner by a girl at work that I have known for a few months. Anyways we went out to a resturant and we started talking, we ordered food and after it was ordered she told me she had to go to the washroom. She never came back. I was just wondering whats wrong with me? I have never smoked, done any drugs or got in a fight with anyone. Yet every girl I talk to treats me so badly I sit at home and hate myself thinking there is something wrong with me. I feel guilty now making eye contact with a strange girl in public that I look at the ground when I walk by and I take flu pills and drink almost everyday to kill the pain.Sorry for the rant its just I dont know what I have done or what to even do anymore with girls? is it ok to just accept that I am such damaged goods I shouldnt even worry about getting a gf?
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Whats wrong with me?
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Hmmm well what i find odd is that she asked you out and did that to you. I mean what exaclty was said that she woulda have done that? I dont think that you are a horrible damaged good if she asked you out on a date. And im guessing you have been on dates before, well those girls didnt have to say yes every time. Stop being so hard on yourself buddy. We all have tough times with the opposite sex, doesnt mean we are damaged goods. I think a problem with you may be your confidence level. Girls are very attracted to confident guys. If you went out on this date and didnt act very confident it may have turned her off. Still it doesnt give her the right to do something like that. but what im saying is you need to keep ur head up high and dont et discouraged so easily. If you need any advice that you dont want to post or anthing like that feel free to pm me.
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I agree with what aTa7 said. Obviously if this girl wanted to go out with you, you've got something good that girls are seeing and responding to. As for what happened on the day, you have to know that is her stuff and not yours. That was incredibly inappropriate. I get really pissed off at these girls acting so smug and not realizing that they way they respond to guys - either on a date or even when turning down a date - has an impact on the guy. It's HER FAULT. And it says a lot more about her then it does you. Now you've got a cool battle scar and a bonafide "bitch story" to tell!
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There are two sides to every story.
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Do tell.Might be helpful for me and Ryan.
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That's exactly what I was wondering! It's going to be pretty awkward the next time he sees her at work.
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She wouldnt talk to me other then telling me that her freinds put her up to it.
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What a bitch....sorry for the outburst. You know what man, all i can say is that you are better off without her. I garuantee that you are not damaged goods. Like i said, dont get discouraged