Virgins

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Why do you think there is such a negative opinion of virgins? I don't get it.

What's this negative opinion that you are referring to?

There is?

Okay, now I feel stupid. Well I posted something related to this on another website and some people seemed to think that somehow by doing so, I think I'm better than them. At least that's what I got from their responses. Then there's the whole uptight thing. People don't respond very postively when I mention this.

No no no, don't feel stupid. I have to say in some places it is considered bad to be a virgin. There is a school in my city where 80-90% of girls have lost their virginity by 16. It's pretty much a social stigma not to have done it. But at other schools the number is far less. It just depends on the social environment.

I commend you.

I hate virgins.Not because they are virgins but because if I'm the one to take it form them, they make a mess on my sheets, they whimper and cry and are never a good lay, no experience, no thoughts of what they do and don't like and they are always disappointed by sex. I prefer a girl that knows what she likes and wants and had some lovers before me so she knows what shes missing by not being with me.seriously, I'm only half kidding with the above paragraph.I didn't know though that virgins were looked down on?you were in my school if you were a man but it was all tormenting, hahah neener neener neener I got some ass and you've never had any.Fuck em! If what you want is to be a card carrying member of the V club then do so, don't put too much stock in what others think of you for your choices, you are the one that has to live with them.

I know what ur talkin about. I think what it comes down to is that some people look at virgins as losers. Why i dont know, i guess having sex has become a popularity contest

at the same time, ive heard plenty of guys who like the idea of taking away virginity from a girl, i think its kinda disturbing the way they talk about it.

i dont know, sex being a popularity contest, i guess it is, especially when your younger, when youre older people dont make such a big deal of it..saying that i do go to an all girls school which is probably virgin heaven (myself not included, lol)

In reply to: I know what ur talkin about. I think what it comes down to is that some people look at virgins as losers. Why i dont know, i guess having sex has become a popularity contest Maybe you could reframe this as "I'm a virgin because I succeeded". If you see it as a quest to keep your virginity, which these days would be a quest, then you have really accomplished something. That's why I said "I commend you" earlier.

The world has its priorites ass backwords nowadays. so i tend not to care what neone says nemore regarding morals. ***Im not talking about you damien

In my old school being a virgin was the best thing and every guy wanted for themselves a pure girl. My friends and I actually sympathized for people who weren't virgins except for those who were married. Now, I get torn apart for not even showing myself naked to a guy and the stories I hear from girls in the locker room are so graphic it mine as well be porn in verbal form. shiver Didn't realize how sheltered I was until I entered the ps. It's hard though because friends pressure you and parents threaten you lol.