Hi, I'm a 20 years old male and have pretty much lived a no-sex life. This might sound ridiculous but I haven't been able to achieve a successful masturbation either. Which means I haven't obtained a orgasm yet. I guess I have a normal penis size for my age as it is around 6 inches long erect. What keeps me from achieving a successful masturbation is my sticky skin around the head when my penis is erect. When it is not, I can pull it back and forth normally and if I'm showering it's even easier. When my penis is erect, I can only see the upper part of the head with all the skin around it plain hard. I'm afraid to force it back as I might just start bleeding or get some kind of infection. Trying to keep on living like this is really getting to my nerves. Should I go see a doctor or attempt to have another unsuccessful sex encounter? Thanks.
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Need some advice
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Sounds like you have a tight foreskin my friend. Just pop on over to the foreskin topic and try some of the techniques suggested so you can work the skin completely over the head when you are erect.
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im a little confused. you said its sticky around the head? well just beneath the head on the shaft is a section where the nerves are at. Its on th ebotton of the shift, just under the head. theres a technique in masturbating where u pinch that section with two fingers and rub it until orgasm. can you do that?
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i just headed over the foreskin forum and it seems i might get some helpful hints from there. i hope i can go over this problem.... thanks
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How to stretch the foreskinTake it gently, don't force it, and you'll see results.
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I have been able to get it just under the head. though its a long way to go yet as it feels a bit uncomfortable when fully erected since the skin is still just stretching. So it's just working out fine... I'm still not getting why is it that after rubbing my soft and sometimes hard penis trying to masturbate i dont get excited at all. same happened with my first sex attempt. wasn't able to get a hard on even after gettin on top. I'm a very shy person and perhaps my poor or no-experience at all is contributing to this behavior. hard to belive but i love girls n would love to be with one more than anything so i'm not gay or anything. maybe i should just see a psychologist?
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It sounds like you don't have a strong sexual imagination. I suspect with more experience you would have more imagination, but there's no need to hurry things.Are you on any medication? Do you have any medical issues apart from being very shy?
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No, I haven't really had any medical problems ot allergies to anything. Guess I will take it easy and keep working on my stretching. I can wait some more... thanks!
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well, you need to stretch your foreskin, and then do some masturbation and then you can go to girls, it could take few months but in august you could be ready to go :wink:
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besides the stretching, i havent been able to achieve anything else.. the skin doesnt quite go fully underneath the head, it's just all in the same place like badly rolled or something. i have tried stroking my penis several times and nothing happens, no weird sessesions or anything. like Ineligible said earlier, i dont have a strong sexual imagination (cant ejaculate...) well i guess that cant be helped. maybe i need some kind of closer interaction like a BJ? tried having sex once and my penis went from almost fully erect to totally soft when i was IN trying the impossible... the stretching is just a waste of time now... i still aprecciate the replys i got. thanks every one of u who replied. btw i already tried http://advancedmasturbation.com and http://www.jackinworld.com/ waste of time...
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I don't think stretching is a waste of time - you need more patience.The reason you went soft was because you were nervous and lacked confidence. You need to build up your sexual confidence by yourself first, I think, before you try anything with a partner.