Hey guys,
I've been with my girlfriend for the past two years, and around three months ago we started having sex. The first time, she was too "tight," so it didn't quite work, but the second time, I was unable to ejaculate. We tried for about ten minutes, but we both got tired, and it still kind of hurt for her, so she did not reach orgasm either. She then gave me a blowjob, because she felt "bad," but after another ~10 minutes, we gave up because I still didn't cum.
It felt great, and I felt like I was going to cum, but I didn't. The next time she gave me head, the same thing happened. She came over last night, but I hadn't jacked off for 4 days, anticipating the same problem. She did give me head, but once again, I did not orgasm.
I precum a lot, but never reach orgasm. I can jack off just fine, and it actually doesn't take long at all. Maybe I can't orgasm because I use too much pressure when jacking off? After she left, I masturbated (becuase of blue balls), and I came very quickly, considering my level of horiness and the length of time it had been since my last orgasm.
I am uncircumcised, and I can fully retract, but it is a little tight. Though, when I retract when I am with her, I am usually "wet" enough from precum so it doesn't hurt. I do masturbate without retracting though, so maybe thats why I can't get anything out of a blowjob/sex? My head is sensitive, but I find that masturbating not retracted is much more comfortable and better feeling then when it is retracted.
I also think a lot about cumming, because I'm worried that I won't. Still, it's strange. Last night, I started masturbating myself while she was there, and then she'd go down on me when I felt like I was about to cum, but even after three consecutive tries, it doesn't work.
I'm not really sure where I should proceed from here, so I'm posting. My girlfriend is very OK with the situation; shes very understanding and knows how frustrating this is for me. Does anyone have any ideas?
Thanks!