Well if youve read my other posts, i get attached. So attached that i have to talk to the girl all the time. But this latest girl in particular, I CANT GET HER OUT OF MY HEAD. everything i see i think of her, every single thing reminds me of her. i want to talk to her all the time. But what i know i need to do is distance myself from her. stop being so dependant on her. Does this sound like something i should do, if so. is there any advice you could give me on how to make it easier?
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DISTANCE
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The question is do you REALLY want to keep your distance from her???? i have no advice all i can say is "control of the mind"....if that makes sense
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I used to have the same problem, but I realized what my problem was and you have as well. The key is to talk to her at appropriate times. If you drown her in attention she will lose interest. You need to just stay relaxed and act as if you are talking to a good friend, and go from there.
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Yes i agree. I noticed that if i play distant than she comes to me. If i drown her with me she loses interest. problem is she is a really good friend to me. In fact shes probably the most important person in my life other than my parents and brother. She knows i have feelings for her. Long story. anyways. Thats why its hard not to talk to her alot, cuz we tell eachother everything. But i need to stay strong i guess
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Just talk to her like a friend. I mean that is what she is. Since she knows your feelings towards her 1 challenge done. Just talk to her like you used to when your feelings were not so strong and take it easy. You want it to be that if it does not work out you two are still friends, and if it does you are even closer. Just remember to calm down. Thinking and fantacising about her is fine, just do not explode all over her when you see/talk to her.
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well the whole reason i became friends with her was because i had a crush on her. and that was about a year and a half ago. long story, blah blah. yea we are very very close. i flirt with her all the time. its hard not too. and believe me she flirts back so i know she likes me alot and still has strong feelings for me. im just impatient i guess
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if i was in ur situation i would communicate with her, ask sit down in a quiet place and talk to her about your feelings and how she feels about them, and go form there
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sex goddess is right. If you want her, then go have a conversation with her in a quiet area where you two can have a nice talk. Do something nice with her. Talking and flirting will only get you so far, and then it will get you dissapoitment.