I'm going to miss her...

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We're sorry for the pain she is going through, which is normal after a death. It's hard lossing someone you are so close with.My thoughts and prayers go out to your family, Katie.

I don't know if you meant to come across that cold Jon but you did! I can't beleive you said that.Personally I am sorry for Katies loss, and her families loss, and the fact they will miss her a great deal.I don't think any of us would want anyone to suffer, but to say we are not sorry for their loss is totally wrong.

OMG you guys are just being stupid.I love Kats and she did lose someone. But I am not sorry that person has passed away. I feel that if I feel sorry for her I am going to be casting pity and singling her out. She has experienced a very normal life process. She did the right thing by seing before she passed. ANd I know that she is strong and is feeling down, but I do not need to feel sorry for her. She is stronger now.

There's a difference but I am not going through it here. This thread is for Katie and not for a debate.Hugs Katie Remember if you need me please feel free to give me a call.

Hey you guys...if anyone wants Katie to be happy, its me. You guys call me insensitive, but I am not.Kats when I see y aonline we shall talk. I know what you are going through, I have no grandparents left. Just remember what we used to talk about.

Oh katie... cuddles I know how hard it is when you lose someone close, especially knowing how close you are to her. I'm so sorry. My thoughts are with you and your family x x x x x x

Thank you all so much! It's going to be tough for a bit, but we'll pull through. I know what you were saying Jon, don't worry, I'm not upset over it. I knew what you were trying to say.

Hey Katie, I'm sad for your loss and I know she's in a better place now. I know how it feels to lose someone dear. I lost my grand uncle not too long ago, so I'm there with you. Stay strong, hun.

***Hugs***Often it hurts more later - don't be ashamed to cry. Don't be ashamed of anything you feel or don't feel.

I feel deeply sorry for your loss and I'm sure you're going to miss her. Keep all the merry memories with her inside you and smile. This is the greatest gift for you she could ever give you.Who knows? Maybe she does the same thing and smiles, too.

I "just got the news" I am so sorry Katie, you be strong, it will be a tough time. Right now I bet you feel all empty and cold but your Grandmother will"pop in" to visit for the rest of your life. Small things will remind you of her always....some day you will smile at the memories, and be all warm from them...hugs

I haven't posted befoer becuase I'm not sure how I can be helpful.
I was living with my dad's mom for several years until my mom decided she want to be a mom again and kidnapped me. (It wasn't really a crime in the 70's.) So I was super close with my grandma. She dies when I was 17. I can still remember the phone call when they told me she was gone. I still feel sad about it from time to time. I wish she had gotten to meet my husband and my kids, a chance to be proud of who I became.
See, this isn't helpful. Sorry.

Im sorry...*hugs*It doesent have to be so hard realy, it's realy what you make it yourself, an of course what state the person that is sick is in...When my grandpa died i smiled...cause we satt talking at the hospital and laughed and almost cried cause we laughed so hard..And he suddenly became very quiet...i asked what it was...(I got scared) and he said, i think im going away now...But dont be sad...I dont have more to experience i've done it all..And then he said here we go..and he just fell asleep smiling...and (Believe it or not) with his thumb up..And i cried yes..but i smiled...cause he did never see things from the dark side...And i know you will miss her...And that you shold too..for a while..but not constantly..it's not good for you...But remember her as she was when se did thing's with you and miss her..(but not sitt alone and miss her) miss her with a smile...It will make it easyer...Eventualy...