My girlfriend and i plan to get married as soon as college is over. She's really a great person but i feel that she tends to argue a lot and it's getting on my nerves...anyway she has a really great point about this. She says that she can't understand us guys because we can't just like one woman or be attracted to just one woman. It's true, I think many other girls my age and older are attractive too but it's not like i'm gonna sneek into their panties. My gf says thats she's only attracted to me and not anyone else. It's weird because she says she's not really into looks at all and hasn't liked any other boy before me except a singer in her favorite band. At some point it was like she almost had me not talk to any other girl in school.Is it just me or is it not just us guys that may have a wandering eye? I was damn sure plenty of girls are the same way! It's not fair...why can't i love my gf as much as she loves me? I really try and i even disaplined myself not to label other girls as attractive or talk about them. Is there anyway that i can get my girlfriend to maybe stop her babbling without making her cry or think i'm just completely annoyed by her? One time she couldn't shower and the next day she was pretty much crying because she felt just a little grease in her hair. God you girls are a handful...
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Looking at others causing a problem?
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Not all girls are as stressy as your GF seems to be. WHY are you thinking of getting married when even now she annoys you so much? If shes annoying now and gets on your nerves, try living with her for a few years and then see how much worse it is!As for looking at others, my other half isn't attracted to other women, and im not attracted to other guys, but i think that some guys will always have an eye for the girls, personally if my other half oggled every female that past us in the street etc, I would slap him, and i know for sure we wouldn't be together.
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im in a similar situation (minus marriage and genders reversed). I dont see why people think just because you're in a relationship, you cant be attracted to other people. I love my bf very much, but I still find other men attractive. Its not like im going to jump their bones, i just notice that other guys have the same qualities that i love about him and im attracted to that. As long as im(you're) not acting on it I dont see what the big deal is.
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Well i think in a normal relationship there is nothign wrong with finding someone else attractive. That doesnt mean that you think any less of your significant other. its human nature to find others attractive. i personally think ur gf is full of shit. the reason i say this is because there is no possible way that she does not look at ANYBODY and think for one second that they are attractive. it doesnt mean though that she will do anything.
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In reply to:i personally think ur gf is full of shit. the reason i say this is because there is no possible way that she does not look at ANYBODY and think for one second that they are attractive. lol, thats exactly what i was thinking
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When I am in a relationship I still find other girls appealing, physically. However I make sure I wouldnt look at them any more than I'd look at a ugy girl or a guy...I mean I often look at ugly girls and guys aswell, doenst mean I want to shag them. I deffinately dont stair though. Are you stairing at girls? If you are I then I suggest you master the art of the "glance".
I dont like your girlfriend. If she annoys you so much I dont suggest getting married. Whose idea was it getting married? It sounds like she has really low self-esteem.
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Whose idea was it getting married?
He is only 16, you know how it is at that age. You love every girl your with, wanna marry them, blah blah. It will pass
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I'm 17 and I dont love every girl I get with, but yeah i know what you mean.