what the hell is wrong with you! Obviously JUST what Katie needs is a thread arguing right now about whether people should be sad about death, for fucks sake! Are you such an attention seeker that you have to start your own thread about this, its totally unappropriate at this moment in time, and by doing it, I don't care how much you say you are not cold hearted, thats exactly what you are portraying, not to mention self-centred. I really don't give a shit whether you mourn people who die or not, but I know this isn't the time to argue about it, sometimes it makes sense to STFU.There is nothing wrong with not being emotional, tell me what is wrong with BEING emotional? You can have emotions and not let them rule your life, there is NOTHING wrong with being emotional, everyone is different, and how they deal with death is different. However, there is a time and a place to lighten the mood, smile about memories, celebrate death, and hours after the event is not the right time.When people are posting about issues regarding, relationships, worries, problems, harrassment etc, its not always a case of saying "well do this, do that" people also want to be understood, for someone to empathise with them, make them not feel alone a million different things. It would be wrong of us to be cold, hard and to the point with quite a few threads on here, people need that little bit more sometimes, and hey if you don't wanna give it then thats just dandy, but don't pull others down for giving what they want to give. You say some members disgust you, and I guess im proud to be one of them. shrug and yes i would imagine unforgetto to join in the slagging "Im too macho for feelings" bullshit, but he was banned or didn't you read the post by Helms in the membership forum!Feeling sorry for someones loss and pain is not a negative thing at all, why would you think that empathising with someone is so wrong. I know how i felt when i lost someone close to me like that, and it hurt, after the numbness, and the LAST thing i would have wanted to here was that someone wasn't sorry they died.I do understand what you are going on about, but hours after a death is not the right time to post/say what you did, it was a horrible thing to say, have a bit of compassion for gods sake!oh I forgot to mention, you expect people to give a shit about your jeep, and how its going, about your lack of GF, next time we won't be compasionate, interested and sympathetic then, we will just be cold hard and dismissive huh, would that be right?