Ok. So I'm a virgin... but my boyfriend probably isn't as he is a couple of years older than me. And it seems quite retarded but it bothers me because I always imagined my first time having sex to be with another virgin and I'm scared that I have to compete with the experienced people he may have had sex with before. And it puts me off if I can't be his first. Yeah I know it's stupid but I can't get rid of that feeling that I won't be as good if I do decide to lose my virginity to him. Just wanting some comforting words don't have a go at meee
This is really dumb...
I feel the same as you. A number of negative sexual experiences have taught me not to compromise on my sexual needs. I'll wait for the right person.I'm not syaing you deffinately shouldnt shag your current guy. But be sure about it first. I love your avatar btw.
I can promise you many of us have been in your situation. You have nothing to worry about. Let me tell you something, if the guy you are with looks down on you because of the way you are than he is a loser and you do not need him. If you guys do have sex, dont get nervouse or frustrated, it takes time. He will have to understand that. There is nothing for you to be worrying about, even though i know its easier said than done, trust me