Can i still have SAFE sex when i have Gonorrhea?

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You could have been nice and said nothing at all.

I realize that it had no effect on him that it obviously pisses me off to hear something like that, but i cant help it. Its not right, and i would feel as if i did nothing by sitting back and keeping my mouth shut. I was amazed at the fact that someone could be that selfish, i still cant fathom that

He wasnt being selfish though

[quoteI hate to sound like an a**hole, but i spent alot of money to come here for this reason, and now i cant have any fun.] He went there specifically had sex, he would be content to not have sex if he was home, and he wants to know if its alright to have sex with an STD, it sounds pretty damn selfish, he isnt thinking about the people he could hurt.

In reply to: I hate to sound like an a**hole, but i spent alot of money to come here for this reason, and now i cant have any fun. Um thats pretty selfish to me. You know what he meant by that. It was self pitty meaning he will have sex when he gets there but he knows he shouldnt because of his std. Lets be realistic here, the world isnt perfect spite what some believe edit: And what java said at the EXACT same time as me!

How can someone be selfish when they come to ask for help?

very easily.

I dont know how else to explain this to you

You're being selfish by acting this way.

How am i being selfish trying to show you that the guy was only thinking of himself? Would you stop being so damn self riteous all the time.

IM NOT.. IM BEING A DECENT PERSON

The guy came asking for help not to get bitched at!! If you dont have anything nice to say then keep your mouth SHUT

self-right·eous (slfrchs)adj. Piously sure of one's own righteousness; moralistic.Exhibiting pious self-assurance: self-righteous remarks.you sound pretty self righteous to me. Stop trying to control how people act, and give me a break with the whole "if you dont have anything nice to say dotn say anything at all" I half waythink you would defend a child molester because we weren't being nice to him.

Im sure the mods see your view differently

yes there were many answers that were out of line.

if the original poster ever reads this,

the fact that you have ghonareah is already an indication that you are not taking proper precautions when engagin in sex. some people get unlucky and contract stds even though they are careful, but you sound quite the opposite.
i mean going to brazil purely to screw people at the carnival?
i'd advise taking better care of yourself, stds are not pleasant, for you or the person that catches them from you.
HIV/AIDS, enough said.
be careful, look after yourself and others.

In reply to:the fact that you have ghonareah is already an indication that you are not taking proper precautions when engagin in sex. some people get unlucky and contract stds even though they are careful, but you sound quite the opposite.i mean going to brazil purely to screw people at the carnival?i'd advise taking better care of yourself, stds are not pleasant, for you or the person that catches them from you.HIV/AIDS, enough said.be careful, look after yourself and others.The BEST reply in this whole thread. ^^

Java and aTa7... Sorry to say this, but i've just received your results from your STD checks and it appears that you're both FUCKING IDIOTS positive.You're giving pink and the first time post abuse because they're the ones doing the right thing.Jesus christ, the poster is ASKING IF HE CAN HAVE SEX WITHOUT PUTTING OTHER PEOPLE IN DANGER. How the fuck is this selfish? You both need to grow the fuck up. By asking such a question he's going through the effort to find out if he can have sex because HE'S THINKING ABOUT THE SAFETY OF OTHERS.He's not an arsehole. He's just uneducated in the matter.You two on the other hand, are infact, 100% RIMJOB material.Answer to the poster: Go out and pull some girls and have a good time, just don't have sex with them. If it does comes down to it, just tell them that you're infected and you're unable to have sex.

First please do not bring old threads back to life.. this thread is 3 months old. Bring back old threads drags down new threads.Secondly did you even read the OP's post? He has a STD and he has no concerns about spreading it to other people. He was only on the treatment a few days and was talking about drinking alcohol while on antibiotics which lessens the abilities to fight the infection. Could people of been nicer, sure but that could be said about almost anything.Again please leave old threads in the graveyard. Thanks.

has no concerns about spreading it to other peopleIf that were true, he wouldn't have posted his questions. You may not agree with his values, but he did ask legitimate medical questions.But this was a dead thread.

Why shouldn't I post in threads? that's what message boards are for are they not? If this thread shouldn't be posted in, then why's it here?Anyway. Due to you lot calling this guy an arsehole, he's probably went out to shag a large batch of women to make him feel better. Calling someone an arsehole isn't the correct response in such a matter. Can't wait till you guys go into parenting and repeatedly call your child an arsehole whenever he/she does something wrong

The convention around here (and it might be different on other message boards) is that, once threads are over a month old, they're not added to; that pushes the old thread to the top and thus pushes down the newer threads. An exception can be made, I suppose, if you have something truly profound to add. Also, in most cases like this, the original poster is long gone. It's better to start a new thread.The old thread thing is not my rule (I'm just summarizing it), and people violate it all over the place. If you have an issue with it, you should take it up with a moderator.In any case, HelmsmaN (a moderator) and Pinkranger4 already said what you said, in a less insulting way.