Have you ever been bullied?

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Has anyone been bullied and actually done something about it? I know alot of people are scared to tell someone about it because they think it will make it worse.

i have been mainly because i was short i think, but then i started to stand up for myself even in crazy situations where i would lose in a fight 100%, this worked for me as people dont bully people who dont let them.

I wound up having to fight the girl. I told my mother, who had a talk with her mother, but that only made her more bold. One day I decided enough was enough. The funny thing is we are friends today. I kicked her ass, and neither one of us has talked about it since.

Its funny how you're worst enemy can turn into your best friend and your best friend turns into your worst enemy!! It happens people...

I guess you could call it bullying.. when i was in 3rd-5th grade some of my so called friends would always give me shit and some what make fun of me.. i never will understand why i took it. Then once 6th grade started and i started going through puberty and got bigger. They stopped and i defantly paid all of them back, mainly on the football field. I mean every once in a while someone gives me shit but who doesnt. Espically because im a freshman.

the best medicine for getting rid of bullies is..1) when they are about to start shit with you deck them in the face and then kick them till they cant move...unless they have friends with them (go to step 2)2) if they have friends with them ask them why they follow a kid that tries to get them in trouble all the time...if that doesnt work (go to step 3)3) Befriend the hottest girl you can and hang out with her whenever the bullies tend to mess with you...nothing deturs a bully more than a hot girl bitching him out...4) and four just incase you are the lowest level nerd with no people skills/ muscle/ friends...learn to take hits and pump iron...that way when you get older you can kick his ass

shut up

well, in elementry i got bullied alot, then i became geek. I was one depressed 10 year old. Then about 6th grade , i went to a different school and i wasnt bullied untill 7th they made fun of me for being smelly, guess puberty hit too hard.I remember crying on my sister's shoulder about it, really shook me up think i had about 1 or 2 friends at the time. Then i found deodorant and everything got better, 8th i was reeeely popular , like the same girls who made fun of me wanted to go out with me and stuff. I still made me angry though, Now daysi (9th grade) not problems, im pretty popular. But when i was bullied on i found an alternative, i stuck with the few friends i had, the computer was one of them and i just kinda became a computer geek. But when those bitchez picked on me all i said was fuck you and walked away, its the only thing i could do.

Has anyone been bullied and actually done something about it? I know a lot of people are scared to tell someone about it because they think it will make it worse. Well I was bullied pretty hardcore until about middle of my 8th grade year. I was in English class and I was off to the side with my English partner working and discussing our project. Well one of the guys that liked to bully me, named Matt, came up to me and dropped his pencil and bend over putting his ass to my crotch and made a comment. Well I finally had enough and snap and slammed my knee into his ass sending him half way into the room into all the desks. After that the bullying died down quite a bit. Not saying it completely ended but I was left pretty much alone. I think they got the point I was done taking the abuse and they moved on to their next victim.

Good!! Were they trying to make fun of you because of your sexuality?

Good!! Were they trying to make fun of you because of your sexuality?Yeah pretty much. They disliked me for other reasons as well because I came from not-so-wealthy parents and couldn’t afford all the cool clothes and I also had acne pretty bad when I was younger. I was also called a nerd because I was very much on over achiever academically. It was after that incident I think they got the point that I might be a “nerd” but I was willing to defend myself. By my senior year I was pretty accepted by most people and was Prince of prom. When it comes to being bullied I think it all comes down to having self confidence and letting them know you are willing to defend yourself to get them to leave you alone.

I wasn't really bullied during my elementry years (that was only because my sister kicked some girl's ass for slapping me around on the bus and in the lunchroom), but junior high and high school was a completely diffrent story. In 8th grade my cousin moved in with my Nanny and her and I never really got along. Well one day I was outside during break and I saw her bulling one of my best friends over a picture. I told her to stop being an ass and to leave my friend alone, and thats when she tried to bully me. I'd already been picked on earlier and I was fed up with it. One thing led to another and the fight was on. She slapped me once and that made me ver angry... needless to say, she ended up against a wall with my hand around her throat until a teacher pulled me off of her. We've never really talked since then.When I was in 9th grade there was a girl named Kristal (she was a senior) who always picked on me. We had a few classes together and she decided she just had to makes my life a living hell on a daily bases. At lunch she' sit beside me and make rude comments to me, follow me around in the halls puching on me and just being as cruel as possible. Well one afternoon after lunch my friend Kat (heh, yeah she was called Kat too) and I decided we'd go and sit under one of the walk ways and start working on one of our english projects we had together. Guess who followed us? The mighty ice princess bitch Kristal.... she walked beside me the whole way to the walk way and she kept saying rude things. Well I could handle her doing it to me, but I wouldn't stand for her to do it to my friend... which is exactly what she did. She called my friend Kat a "lesbian bitch" and that's when I had enough. I threw my books onto the ground and got into her face. I yelled so loud everyone who was around stopped and stared at us (at that moment I didn't care who saw or who heard anything). I chewed her out and I told her that if she ever said a snide comment to me or anyone else that I cared about she'd regret it and that I'd screw up her pretty little face and then she wouldn't be quiet so popular with the boys anymore. Shemust have believed me because she nor her friends ever messed with me again.The only other time I was bullied was when I was in an all boy Ag class. It was more like sexual harassment than it was being bullied. The guys would take every chance they could to grab my butt or my boobs when ever the teacher was out of the room. One guy named Jarred would sit beside me, steal my pen and place it on his crotch and tell me that if I wanted it back, I'd have to get it myself. He would do that every day and I'd just laugh it off because I though if I didn't do anything he'd get tired of doing it and that would be the end of it. Wrong! Things just got worse and worse... I was asked for 'special' favors (such as blow jobs, hand jobs, and so on) while in the green house by them, I had guys rub against me... just completely stupid shit! Well I finally got tired of their little game and one day when Jarred pulled his little stunt I asked "Do you really want me to get it myself?" and of course he just snickered with his little buddies and said "oh yeah" and guess what I did. Not only did I grab my pen, but I also grabed the family jewels and squeezed as hard as I could that way not only would my fingers be digging into his crotch but so would my pen. I had never seen a guy cry so hard or beg so much in my life! I just held on and told all of them that I'm not taking it anymore, and that if anyone does anything like that or asks any more 'special' favors from me again, I'm heading to the principal to tell him about it or I'm just going rip their little buddy off and call it a day. They never messed with me again and we all became pretty good friends after that lol

i got hassled today. i was coming out of a store with a chocolate bar i had bought and this guy at the entrance said 'get out the store man' and i didnt wanna seem like i was being controlled by him, but come on, am i expected to stay in the store just to prove a point? There was a line. As i came out he said 'yeah you're best to do what i tell you' now this kid had friends around him and if i had hit him id get jumped on, so i shoved past him and went home. Stuff like that gets to me and i obsess about it for ages. Its not that i dont have the strength to fight people who give me crap, its that i chicken out because of laziness, or because they have backup ( older friends/siblings )

It all comes down to what can you live with ?can you look yourself in the mirror everyday for the rest of your life and not have it bother you?Probally wasnt a bad idea to cut out being out numbered, but I would of busted him in the throat. I promise he would of been down and done. I may well of been beaten by his buddies but that fuck would know better then to try me again.Not to mention at a store there are plenty of people who want to end fights not stand by and watch them. You may well of taken a few punches maybe some feet if you went down but it would not of lasted long.

yea i usually dont try to get in a fight because the kids who look for trouble usually have older siblings that they call or their friends to fight the battles. Also people cant make fun of you if u make fun of yourself, my friend does that all the time so it is almsot impossible to make fun of him.

omgg,,i've been bullied since 5th grade (im in 8th grade now), its horible, i've been called fat, ugly,a whore,slut,mother fckr nd a lot of other stuff.godd, i HATE school sumtimes..kids now-a-days are horible!

It doesn't bother me at all that I didn't do anything about the bullying. It bothers me a great deal that I cared about what they said.

Yea. Pretty badly too, i was the skinny-tiny-geek-girl. I got messed with every single day of my life. i have a pretty bad burn scar on the back of my neck because of a situation i was put in.

I remember my best friend got bullied.. these girls tried to put white out in her hair.. they tried putting it in my hair too because i sat with her. Now she's dead.. now they feel like shit. I'm glad they do.

I dont understand how kids can be so cruel to people.