This question is mainly for women, but of course anyone can answer. Suppose you find inconsistencies in something your significant other says. You question it, and they give you an answer, but you still have that gut feeling that something isnt quite right. How do you know whether to trust your intuition, or to believe what your significant other says?
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Where to draw the line?
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I always trust what my guts says It hasnt been wrong yet
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I live on instinct.sometimes I pay for it and its wrong but I live on it and normally Im right.If Im driving and can take two roads to go one place and instinct says go left instead of to the right I do, more then once there has been bad shit o the road I avoided by not taking it, of course alot of times there was nothing at all.do the stories add up? what about the explanations?if shit jsut does not add up then Id move on.Of course by posting this you already revealed that you dont trust them, if the trust is gone then the truth doesnt matter any more, finish it and start over with someone you trust
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Helms you make it sound so easy, lolI guess its difficult because the "lie" isnt serious enough to consider ending the relationship, but I think its more than merely a little white lie. There isnt a pattern of inconsistencies either.I just cant seem to shake this feeling that something isnt right. And i cant prove anything he says is a lie. Im one to chose my battles, and this doesnt seem like a logical one to argue, but i just keep getting a bad feeling about things.
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My favourite saying..isten to your heart before you make the biggest mistake of your life
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Anytime I have had a 'bad' feeling, I have been right. Helms is right about the patterns. I noticed patterns with my boyfriend...turned out he was cheating. Among other things.