Is this unhealthy?

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No no, not you at all.I started typing to you and uhhh I started ranting again then clicked submit. I wasnt taking shots at you, I cant recall a single time Iv ever seen you exibit any of the actions I was condeming

i didint mean faggot as in gay i just meant it like, errrr. im not sexist, in fact ive been threw my own bi-curious stage, i dont have problems with gay people, and im almost positive her father knows that we are having sex cause he's told my girlfriend that he was going to take her to the clinic on her next period to start taking birth control, and also i knew his apology was sarcastic, i was also being sarcastic. i dont have a tough guy attitude, forgive me if i had a somewhat bad childhood, i dispise people insulting me, and ive been going threw alot of shit in the past few days, 1 friend died, and another is critically injured(got shot in the lungs or something like that) not to mention my sisters first baby was born monday, and just yesterday they found out the his heart murmer is still open and he also has a hole in his some heart tendiment our something, all i know is that his blood with oxygen is mixing with his blood without oxygen and its causing him to not be able to breath good, he has to have surgery within the next 30 days. my mom left to help my sister with the baby yesterday night, and im still here, my sister has been there for me since i was a baby, my mom had to work 3 or 4 jobs a day to provide for our family, so my sisters and grandmother was all i had, my grandmother died, and my other sister became a drug addict, my sister that had the baby was the only one there for me. sry for ranting on. im just really stressed, and i kinda flared off at the wroung people. note: i wasint laughing in my girlfriends dads face for disobeying his trust, and i didint mean faggot as in gay i meant it as in bitch, and i am NOT a sexist person.

thank you for writing that, you spared me the time to do so. tough guy attitude results in nothing and will mostly single yourself out.What I find funny is how he assumes that b/c he is around this family he has been a driect affect on her development. There is no way you can say that you are saying two associated items are casual and that is wrong. It was nice you did but it would be the same as me helping some guy to make money so I could rob him later. May look good, but man you are fucked up. And you are very young in the mind not onlydoes he stoop to the lowest level he uses the tiniest amount of intelligence to do it. Let me give you some pointers. Tell the parents what you are doing b/c you are not mature enough to acknowledge the resposnibility that comes of it. PS that was at the OP...not you grvtykllr......oh now i get it..duh...grvtykllr ==> gravity killer...lol

No offense than be the mature person you are trying to portray and use mature words to express how you feel. Throwing immature words like Faggot around does nothing but degrade you.

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note: i wasint laughing in my girlfriends dads face for disobeying his trust, and i didint mean faggot as in gay i meant it as in bitch, and i am NOT a sexist person.

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yeah but you are young and immature. You are in no way shape or form ready to be having sex. You may think you know it all but there is a lot to learn, that you need to learn.

In reply to: oh now i get it..duh...grvtykllr ==> gravity killer...lol Thats right Gravity is the enemyf of ever climber and my duty is to defeat it.I suppose on thsi forum I could of spelled it out since they allow longer names but on other forums and teh chat rooms I once frequented they didnt, so I used this abreviation.

In reply to: i didint mean faggot as in gay i just meant it like, errrr. im not sexist..........and i didint mean faggot as in gay i meant it as in bitch, and i am NOT a sexist person. fFaggot only has fone meaning, the meaning that society has attached to it.you now claim that you meant to call him a bitch.so was this the female dog variety or was this the SEXIST version.I can sympathize wit hard times and all the shit you have going on but it does not give you license to make the attacks you did.you asked a question and had to know you would recieve negative answers to it. you may not be laughing at her dad but that certainly is th impression you give in this thread.

Faggot also means meatball and I like meatballs, they are tasty and can be covered in sauce and chomped on. I love faggots. Thus it follows that I will call people I like, "faggots". Next time I have a girlfriend I'm gunna call her "my lil faggot". We shall see how that goes.as for ageisjustanumber, well hes typical grime as far as I can tell. My suggestion is he stops listening to his hip-hop shit that thinks everything is about sex and drugs and yer bitch and using the english language like a retard. Alternatively listen to Hip-hop while behaving like a civilised person, I know peopel that manage that. I'm not really blaming hip-hop, I'm blaming the culture thats often attatched to it :nods: I like Kanye West, hes educated and civilised and his music is decent stuff. I'm trailing off the point.

meatball???
where the hell did you get that? Must be a UK thing?
I know in the UK 'bum a fag' is asking to borrow a smoke but i dont think that wil go over very well in the US nor do I think it would be a good idea to order faggots on your spaghetti.
The result may not be what you wanted :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:

Meatballs??Not I know Faggot has a meaning of a bundle of sticks. But never heart meatball LoL.

hahaha Meatball...Man these faggots are great (spagetti and meatballs (faggots)lol)...hahahahahahahaha hahahah

oh man that is so weird....

You all need to shut your fucking mouths and grow the fuck up. This kid isn't doing anything wrong and you are being rude DISRESPECTFUL and FUCKING STUPID FUCK !! Look at the name of this WEBSITE.. PEOPLE COME HERE LOOKING FOR HELP.. NOT TO HAVE ALL THE ABOVE THINGS SAID TO THEM.. FUCK

he got his help. Pink so if he came on saying he was having sex with is gf 6-10 times and then he got and STD and she was pregnant, your response would change.

No it wouldnt. I would try to support him the best way i could... because this website is about people who are afraid to go somewhere else. They shouldn't be afraid to post here. NO ONE SHOULD.. I can't post anything.. I have alot of problems and questions.. A L O T.. I can't post here because the in crowd of A2A doesnt like me. So all my feedback would be negative BULLSHIT

Ntroducing, if any guy ever calls you a faggot just ask him if he wants you with gravy or as part of a bolognaise

Well thats how I felt when a bunch of people here were calling me racist, despite that I was looking for help. I got rude at peoples responses and things deteriated. I learnt a number of things from that.However this isnt a first time with this guy and he is too quick to lash at people, without tyring to learn anything. However its deffinately true that there is an "in-crowd" here on A2A, somehting I've experienced and found it very upsetting, so your right that needs to change.

and I bet alot of people still feel that way about you.I don't even remember the racist comments. I don't see you as a racist at all. I bet a bunch of people still see me as the homophobic bitch.. buttt im not homophobic at all

The way I see it it doesnt matter if I'm racist, or if your homophobic. We dont pick and choose who we help, unless your a complete bigot.That being said I wasnt helpful to this guy. Why? Cos I despise his type. Really really despise them, I tend to call them very classist things (something I resisted this tiem around). But there ya see I behaved hypocritically. I think its something we could all work on.

And things we have said in the past get brought up again in every topic you start.
I come here to help people, give advice. Not to chat, make friends, bitch/make fun of people .. I have a real life.. I save those things for that.

I don't get what you're so riled up about.Really, can you go back and read this guy's posts and honestly say he's just a poor, confused teenager looking for advice? Nope. Not even close. He's a know-it-all who spends most of his time here frontin' and bragging. He acts like he has a question, but has shown no real intention of listening to anything being said to him. He is incredibly disrespectful. So I called him out on his behavior. Sometimes that's the most helpful thing you can do to a kid. He needed to hear it. If that makes me In reply to: rude DISRESPECTFUL and FUCKING STUPID , then so be it.Actually, I think your rant was way more rude and disrespectful than anything I said to ghetto-boy. What would you have said to him?That being said...I actually like you more than you might think.