How do you get your crush to fall for you?

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There's this guy I like, but I'm almost positive he doesn't like me. I know you can't make ppl fall in love with you, but is there any tips you pplz have to speed the process along or maybe even influence him?

talk to him tell him how you feel. that should be a good way to speed things along. You are not going to know if he likes you unless you find out.

I find a a chloroform-soaked rag works just fine. Kiddin!Just being your interesting, funny self in front of him would get you noticed, I'm sure. Being nice to him goes without saying. Maybe you could invite him out with a group of friends. Friendly groups are always good ways to get to know someone.

Seriously. Easiest, and best way is to just come right out and tell him.Guys are RUBBISH at picking up signs girls leave. You have to be as blatant as you can.

This girl gives me some signs that made me like her. She gave me compliments. Just suttle things like your eyes are pretty, i like how you did your hair today. Do it subtle though, only say these thing in a conversation with him when relevent.

Sometimes, while it's nice to say "just tell them!", it's not always realistic. You're also not giving this person a chance to even get to know you, unless you've been hanging out together for a while. The original poster made it sound like the guy in question was more of the random variety and not exactly a friend. I could be completely wrong.Also, sometimes going up and telling someone you have a crush on them or asking if they have one on you does nothing but scare them off (even if they had feelings for you). I've had that happen to me.

Yup, just as i said subtle but noticeable. Hit often as well. If you say somthing over and over but change it up somtimes will hit a spark in his head. He will think why is she always giving me these compliments, why just to me too?

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Sorry! I had to go, thx for answering though!

Oh, and I'm friends with him (not really close, but we're getting there). I don't really want to go out with him (I know, what?) because going out with people ruins your friendship and if you break up it's gone FOREVER. Lol, so more tips please! :grin:

Oh, yeah, I also don't want to tell him that I like him, because I know that he doesn't feel the same way- my main goal is for him to feel the same way!i know, i'm picky......and also, i can't rely on "good looks" because, er, I don't have any...lol.

So you don't want to go out with him, but you want tips to make him fall in love with you?

Is your brain broken?

you nub...It can ruin your friendship if you mess it up. It can make it so much stronger. The fact that you are friends makes it obvious that he likes you in some way. If you really like him and feel that way then you should pursue your feelings. It is always better to say you tried then I held back...Hey does anyone remember that story someone posted on here about thsi guy and girl who liked each other and after of one of them passed the other read the journal and all it had in there was the (person who died) waiting for the the other person to ask him/her out? anyone remember that?

Trust me, you dont need looks. I thought i was one ugly son've bitch but came to relize, if you act up beat you get noticed. Make jokes and talk to people you never would have talked to. If you can succeed at that you will get over with what you think of your self. Trust me you cant judge your self on how you look. When guys start friendships with girls they are usually looking for more. Just to let you know

Sadbuttrue her brain isnt broken. Lets put it in the words of Winston Churchill. Girls Are Inigmas Wrapped In a Mystery, except that churchill had russia instead of girls

The hardest part about liking someone whos feelings you are unsure of.. is the fear of rejection. It happens. Its terrifying.

I wouldn't advise you to go out and tell him how you feel right away.. give him a few hints.. flirt a little.. and let nature take its course. You cant make someone like you.

okay pplz, i know it's stupid but i don't want to ruin the friendship we have. i couldn't stand it if he thought i was a pathetic loser that asked him out when he didn't like her. i know it sounds gay but that's how i feel!!!!! so confused........and plus one of my friends likes him and i don't want to hurt her feelings. i've had that happen to me with the same guy- one of my friends went out with him when she knew i liked him. and man, was i pissed.

Eeek.. I dunno if you would consider than off limits or not?

well, not to be mean but i don't (think that he's off-limits). i like him too much!!!! i guess i don't have to be with him, but just know that he loves me too...and maybe then i would. for the guys who are reading this- do you know what guys generally want to see in girls? like major turn-offs and turn-ons?is this too confusing?