I have a question...

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I'm looking for answers to a question of mine. I'm coming to a forum where I can ask open ended questions without fear of being scrutinized right, but instead will receive positive feedback? Am I correct? Well hear it goes.

I have sex with my girlfriend a lot while her parents are out and stay at her house while her parents are around - is this unusual?

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Now in my mind, this doesn't come across as too strange. I don't know how many teens you know that tell their parents when they're having sex, it's usually more discreet than that. I think the fact that he's coming to ask about it shows a certain degree of maturity and he's not doing anything really wrong. People have made posts that depict far more unusual scenarios and they often get positive feedback.

If you haven't figured out what I'm talking about I'm relating to the "Is this unhealthy?" post. In this case, people responded very negatively and called him immature, lying, and act like he's committed some sort of crime. He trusts the dad and the dad trusts him, but how many people come out and tell the parents that they are having sex. Seriously, if they aren't disturbing the parents at all then what's the big deal. The only problem I saw there was with the little brother thing and I'm wondering how much, as a younger sibling, he knows of this.

I'm shocked at the generally negative feeling that everyone responded with and I'm dissapointed that you judged him so quickly and harshly. If I'm missing something here then please feel free to tell me because I want to know what made him deserve that criticism.

I COMPLETELY agree!!!

People here have gotten extremely rude.. people come here looking for help and advice.. not to be made fun of, put down and be disrespected. It really pisses me off. I honest can't stand reading half the posts anymore because i get SO pissed off .. who are we to act like were better than someone else just because we've been here longer then someone else. Who are we to decide who's in the "cool group of a2a" or whos "liked". If you're not liked does it mean that your posts don't matter or that you get the put down post. If someone in the "in crowd" here would post something like that.. i can **guarentee ** you that they would not get the response that ageisjustanumber(?) did.. Its pathetic!

well i have to dis agree b/c he did get his advice plus a plate of opinion. That is what i tried to do when had asked a question. I gave him answers

I have to assume that that is at least partially leveled at me.First go reread what I wrote.I can not fault him for bumping uglies with her, like I said I would do the same. Besides that I would never tell my gfs parents that we like to fuck and we are in our 30'sthe problem I had with it was all the other shit.fit was more bragging then anything, it was also the tone it was written.Besides you need to remember one thing, most all of us who jumped his ass are parents and there is a certain gut reaction that we are all guilty of that we can not avoid.had he asked it ht way you did or even if he had left out the smart ass tone that I at least read in it I do not think any of what transpired would of come to be.asking and making the statements he did are two different things.Understand ? it wasn't what he said so much as how it was said that caused the attitude in the responses, or at least thats how I see it and how I came to respond in the way I did.

Im really fucking pissed off about all this

her mom and dad dont carein fact her lil brother even dared her to suck my dick and swallow my cum in the next roomThis is all too much...... Had he posted his question without all the extra details.. he wouldn't have had such a negative response.

In reply to: I think the fact that he's coming to ask about it shows a certain degree of maturity and he's not doing anything really wrong. I honestly don't think he came to ask us about it as much as he came to tell us about it. In reply to: He trusts the dad and the dad trusts him, but how many people come out and tell the parents that they are having sex. And, as has already been pointed out, he is in essence laughing in the face of the man he says he respects. "Look at that buffoon. He trusts me and loves me but what he doesn't know is that I'm boinking his little girl right under his nose...in his own house." That's incredibly disrespectful and shouldn't go unchallenged. In reply to: I'm dissapointed that you judged him so quickly and harshly. No one judged him quickly. He's been posting here for a while, and anyone with any amount of discernment has figured out the deal on him. Hardly a rash decision, I would say. As for harsh...so what? Harsh is not in essence wrong. Sometimes we need harsh reactions or words. Using sweet, lovey-dovey words would hardly have been appropriate for what I was expressing to him. In reply to:If I'm missing something here then please feel free to tell me because I want to know what made him deserve that criticism. That's fair. Like I said to Pink, go back and re-read his posts. You'll get the picture.

In reply to: No one judged him quickly. He's been posting here for a while, and anyone with any amount of discernment has figured out the deal on him This isn't highschool.

And your point?Oh wait...you were making my point. Thanks.

the way people act on here is pathetic.. like highschool

Im really disappointed how this website has turned out. I wonder how the Doc would feel if he knew what was going on.

He told some extra details...yeshe has made angry posts before...yesbut oh well who cares. Whats done is done....I find all this extra talk all very funny. keep it up, my arms and legs are bleeding so this makes the pain go away.

How do you feel? it happened to you

at the time i was angrybut after i realized what had happenedso I am fine with that happened.

In reply to: the way people act on here is pathetic.. like highschool I couldn't agree more.Although...if someone is actually in high school, isn't that how they should be expected to act?

While they are in school. Not on a board where people come for support and advice.

Damien, I think you (and many others) have been mis-reading Ageisjustanumber's posts. I think you've been reading from a point of sophistication that wasn't present at the writing, and so you've seen sub-texts that weren't intended to be there.In my conversations with him, I've found Ageisjustanumber to be a very straightforward person with many good qualities.

to the original question..no i dont think its unusual, with my last boyfriend, my parents even let him sleep in the same room as me, i guess thats unusual - but i come from quite an open family, my parents knew i was in a sexual relationship and on the pill etc and they knew my boyfriend enough to know he was a nice guy. blah - i dont know, in one way i prefer it this way because if parents are really strict, young people can easily make more mistakes etc imo