I'm looking for answers to a question of mine. I'm coming to a forum where I can ask open ended questions without fear of being scrutinized right, but instead will receive positive feedback? Am I correct? Well hear it goes.
I have sex with my girlfriend a lot while her parents are out and stay at her house while her parents are around - is this unusual?
Now in my mind, this doesn't come across as too strange. I don't know how many teens you know that tell their parents when they're having sex, it's usually more discreet than that. I think the fact that he's coming to ask about it shows a certain degree of maturity and he's not doing anything really wrong. People have made posts that depict far more unusual scenarios and they often get positive feedback.
If you haven't figured out what I'm talking about I'm relating to the "Is this unhealthy?" post. In this case, people responded very negatively and called him immature, lying, and act like he's committed some sort of crime. He trusts the dad and the dad trusts him, but how many people come out and tell the parents that they are having sex. Seriously, if they aren't disturbing the parents at all then what's the big deal. The only problem I saw there was with the little brother thing and I'm wondering how much, as a younger sibling, he knows of this.
I'm shocked at the generally negative feeling that everyone responded with and I'm dissapointed that you judged him so quickly and harshly. If I'm missing something here then please feel free to tell me because I want to know what made him deserve that criticism.