There is this girl who i like. Im pretty sure she likes me as well. She stares at me and give me nice compliments. The problem is she has a boyfriend. They show not a single bit of affection for each other. Today seemed different for some reason. She was staring at me so i decided to look up and stare back. We went for about 5 secs then she looked away and her face was red. This is where the wierd stuff starts happening, for the rest of the class she looked like she was about to cry. I didnt understand why all of a sudden she looked like she was ginna cry? Someone said it had nothing to do with me and sombody else said that she wants me and relized she picked the wrong guy?
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So Many Options... Which to choose
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She could just be upset because of a problem in her relationship.
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Oh, you crazy kids and your drama. At your age, nothing is set in stone. This situation sounds much more dramatic than it actually has to be.
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Hey, dont talk to me about drama. I say that we are kids we go to school. No bills, we are worry free. We should never be stressed further then what are parents are... ever.
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lol all winged is saying is you are making this more than it should be. That is drama, and unfortunately in high school there is a lot of drama.
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I see i got it now. March break just started gotta wait a week before anything else happens
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So many options? There are 2.Tell her you like her.Don't tell her you like her and just wait to see if she makes a move.
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Bob i wrote 2 down.. there are many more. I wait for her to make a move, I make the move, I back off let her and her BF have space,Try and break them up, Just become friends. Much more then 2
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Think about the mature thing to do. If you like her tell her, if you dont let it go. Dont be a chld and try to break them up,
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Yeh i wasn't going to break them up. Im just thinking if I should be my self now and use a few Don Juan lines and see what she does, if she melts or if she ignores them. The i go for the kill or go right away
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Basically there are 2, maybe 3\. As a mature individual, you will not try to break them up. The other ideas you mentioned are pretty much the same thing with slight variations. You tell her you like her, you don't tell her.
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Does anybody think this is an elligable thought? She meets her boyfriend. Afterwords is introduced to me the next day. After a few days she grows on me. She likes me talking to me giveing me compliments, starring at me. She dosent know I like her yet. I give no signs, not trying to be a prick and break them up. Then today while she is starring at so i decide to stare back. At this time she realizes i like her now. She becomes flustered dosent know what to think. She beocomes confused. Hre eyes start to water because she dosent know what to do. She holds it in though there are to many people around to cry. She keeps to her self, makes sure nothing will set her off. what do you think about that
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She sounds like the kinda girl that overreacts. Its boys, not life or death. There is no good reason for her to get all teary eyed over liking a boy. So she either has a flare for the dramatics, or there is something else, something personal that got to her at that moment.In my opinion, from what information you have given us, I would guess that she likes you. Not sure how much but I'd say on a par with whomever it is she is with at the moment. I would think that she likes you and may regret getting with the other guy over you.But then again, it could just be an emotional form of "buyer's regret". She wanted something, she got it, now she wants something else that she can't have cause of her original decision.
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Heh, buyers regret.
