Hey you guys what can I do to overcome my fear of losing someone. I have recently met someone and she is new to the area and is into everything i like. I am afraid that when I take her to these new places to go offroading I am afraid I will lose her to them. I am not sure I could take that since we have already been on an unofficial date and met up with her. I like her and I don't want he to fall for someone else.
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Fear of Losing Someone
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That's no way to live though, Walken. You can't keep someone caged up. Is it a lack of trust? I know I'm stating the obvious here, but if she's really into you taking her to these places won't matter.Instead of thinking you might lose her, think of the good things that can come of this. Your bond could get a lot stronger since you have a lot in common.
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Dispite the jokes i made on aim lol, you cant worry about things like that. You will go nuts if you worried about losing her to every guy. This is how people become jealous, and jealousy breaks up relationships. Like said already you need to worry about what you can do to win her over. Be there for her, take her out, etc. But dont worry about other guys, worry about yourself. If she really does like you then she wont leave, if she does leave well then it wasnt going to work anyways
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you know as of last night, things got incredibly complicated and real fast too. And not in a good way.
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Im just being nosey, but, care to share?
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well she is going to leave the state again in 1 month. the way she is pursuing hanging out and constantly talking about how I should be having sex non stop. It is making it hard...i dunno i talked with ata7 and we came to the conclusion that i am just jumping on her as soon as i met her.
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hmm...sounds about right...just depends on what your really looking for..