Sexual Slapping

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My boyfriend really likes slapping during sex. Face slapping. I enjoy it from time to time, and I'm incredibly turned on by being spanked. Sometimes when I think of slapping someone's face during sex it seems.. a little disrespectful. But I'm guilty of enjoying it.I was wondering.. Does anyone think there any subconscious reasons for wanting to be slapped/slapping someone else during sex?He says he likes it because it's "intense" but I'm sure there's a deeper meaning.

I enjoy it from time to time, That seems bothersome to me... Doesn't seem right for him to do it when you don't want it. But, I don't understand the whole face slapping part. It seem s really demeaning to me.

its no about demeaning, its about the conflict of pain during pleasure.I do agree though that if she isnt asking him to do it he shouldnt be doing it, what turns you on all doesnt do it all the time and its more like abuse than just some "ruff and tuff" sex if it isnt asked for.

There's nothing wrong with a little slap and tickle now and again, as long as he respects your boundaries.

Does he ever knowingly do it or pressure you into it, when you don't want it? Are you talking love slaps or something more violent?

I don't know about the whole intense thing, though I won't discount it. More generally it has to do with empowerment and domination over your partner. Which is not, in and of itself a bad thing. It can be fun but when it becomes a necessity for sexual arousal or release it's a problem.

I for one like to slap my lady when we're having sex. For me it has nothing to do with intensity, it has to do with domination. But it also works the other way, when she feels like being a dom. All in all we don't do it all that often. I would like it more but my wife doesn't and I respect that and have no problem with it.

A lack of self-esteem? That's all I can think of if you're looking for the real deep meaning. I don't consider myself overly confident but I would never enjoy getting slapped by anyone. I'm totally NOT into domineering or whatever it is they call it. Just like everything else in life, balance is key for me. Besides that, I don't know how to explain people that enjoy abuse. To me it's like those people that are born with no pain receptors.

your way off.I enjoy pain, to a degree, that degree is alwasy moving, what doesnt bother me today may well be the thing that puts me on my ass tonight. Some pain is good, especially during sex, fingernails in your back, teeth in your shoulder..a good slap when your about to cum.I have pain receptors, its my brain that works different around pain. to get into the ring and box I think you have to be a bit twisted, you have to enjoy being hit to some degree, but its nt sexual. I have a high tolerance for pain in some situations and no tolerance in others. In bed however even when Im not in what ever mode it is that makes me want to be hurt, I still like to be dominated.

that makes more sense than anything else.its nto a lack of self esteem though, well in some it is, or so Iv read but not in me, Im about as confident as you can get in myself, and since julies cruising this site more often now I even got a witness to my self esteem.IF its what you enjoy its fine to do I think, unless you dont want it done and it still is being carried out to get your partner off.thats abuse not 2 adults doing what turns them on

I was just guessing. Like I said I can't relate with pain being enjoyable, even though I have an extremely high tolerance for it as well. Last night I was washing my hands with very hot water and my neighbor Carlos went to rinse his hands right after me and got first degree burns. The self-esteem thing, I guess I got that from people who like to cut themselves, but a totally uneducated guess.

for me I think its more about that all day long in person and phone calls adn shit everyone looks to me to make the decisions nad fix everything, fuck I got my mom my brothers, friends everyone calling me al the time needing help, wanting me to fix this or that or install something and its nice to not be in charge, its wonderful to have her take that all away and make the decisions, take charge and fuck me till Im exausted.

I'm with you on that. I love to be dominated. I love to be told what to do, spanked, hair pulling etc. The whole pleasure/pain thing is great. But I have never been slapped in my face. I don't know what I would do if he did. lol. I might slap him back I think.

I'll be a little rough at times but only within the boundries of our mutual comfort level. Personally, I couldn't bring myself to slap a woman's face, even if it was insited uppon.now, I've been know to grab someone by the kneck and sink my teeth in here and there... and I've wound up pretty battered and bruised myself on occasion.anyone care to join me in the rough stuff?

jumps up and down Me! Me! Pick me!

yeah baby!I'm just scared that I might not be able to contain my enthusiasm and we'd both end up in hospital!

you two gotta knock this shit of till you produce ID to her on her door step, or atleast some cheesy motel.

I need to bring ID?honest, I'm of age!!

I dunno, lish brought up that we dont really know anything about any of us, whos telling the truth about their age and what not, so its been decried by king chance that you have to get her some ID before this shit between you two can go on any more, maybe you need to see hers as well.

well, you don't think that we don't know what each other looks like do you?

Hey, you could be sending me pics of some other sexy Canadian.

there are many of us but I'm their leader

now i see where the ID and pic thing came from.....
*feels dumb*

*looks at time*..... or was the other the start of this..

oh hell I'm confused...

*backs out quietly*