okay, i have never kissed a girl ( whole different story ) and i am 14 and very confused. My friend says when he kissed his ex girlfriend he got an erection and this was embarassing for him. Im not sure what this means,does the girl expect me to get an erection?if i dont, will she laugh?tv misleads me a lot. like in scrubs a character kissed a girl and she mocked him when he DIDNT have an erection. but in other shows i see the guy has a boner and the girl laughs so he thinks of things to get it down. am i meant to be erect or not? its so confusing.
Serious confusion issue here!
I doesnt really matter lol, if your making out with a girl your much more likely to get one then not. But, overall i dont really think girls care. its a compliment if you do, and if you dont she probably wont notice.
there are ba times to get one.
when issing girls if it gts very hot and heavy I always got one.
laying next to my fiance' in bed I get one nightly feelig the heat from her skin and the curves of her body next to mine.
we both sleep nude and even if we just finished a round of sex and are going to bed it still happens when I cuddle up next to her. sometimes I see something on tv or in real life and it gets me thinking and I get a woody.
its only bad if say you get one in the showers at school during gym, your going to take some abuse over that. some girls at younger aes may freak out over a guy getting a boner over issing them as they mature they start to realize its normal.
I would be more worried if I did NOT get a stiffy when I was being active with a girl.
With sex, you should expect things not to go according to expectation. If a guy kisses a girl, he might get an erection, and he might not. It doesn't mean much either way. No girl with any trace of politeness would make a comment whichever happened.
don't believe everything you hear and see on tv. And it depends on your hormones and how turned on you are by the kiss. If your having a heavy makeout session, then most likely you'll get boned up. If not, then don't worry about it.
I think girls like it... because they know that your turned on.. but what grade are you in? i know you said your 14 but it depends on what grade the girl is in.. if she has ever made out etc. with other guys and here maturity level.
It all depends.
Has she kissed a guy before?
But since your 14, she probly wont care.
It might turn her on! :sunglasses: :wink: